It was only in the mid70s here, since it’s been cloudy with rain showers all day…definitely a nice change.
I saw the spine surgeon’s PA today and the visit was, as I expected, fact-finding, exam, and conversation. I’m set up for an MRI next week, and then to return to the office again after that. I’m not really claustrophobic, but I’m pretty uncomfortable with MRIs. They offered to call me in some Valium, and I took them up on it.
The PA was very thorough in her explanation of the x-ray and possible problems. She felt that my physical symptoms weren’t too bad at this point, i.e., no numbness or loss of strength in my arms, but that we’d wait to see the MRI before making any further decisions. I told her that we were going to be traveling, and she said they might give me a steroid injection in the neck/shoulder area to help with pain during that time. Then when we return, maybe they would prescribe some PT before getting into anything more invasive. I can live with this plan.
Thursday, August 06, 2015
Wednesday, August 05, 2015
Monday, August 03, 2015
Monday Miscellany, except....
Usual morning stuff.
So-so cards, except for a small slam John and I bid and made.
Best thing was dinner - casserole made with last Thanksgiving turkey, dressing and gravy.
So-so cards, except for a small slam John and I bid and made.
Best thing was dinner - casserole made with last Thanksgiving turkey, dressing and gravy.
But NEVER miscellaneous....
Happy Birthday, Jean!
Sunday, August 02, 2015
Sunday Stealing
Shout Out The Answer Meme
Stolen from: My Random Randomness
Do you shout out the answers at the TV while watching quiz shows?
I haven’t watch quiz shows in years, but I have been known to shout at the TV
Do you get over-involved with TV or movie plots at times?
Not really, although I do cry sometimes.
What's the highest hill or mountain you've ever climbed?
Climbed? None. But the highest I’ve been on is in Switzerland, the Jungfraujoch (3,454 m.) Do you have a piggy bank?
Nope
What's the fastest you've ever traveled in a car?
Maybe 80+ MPH.
Could you ever hand milk a cow?
I doubt it very seriously - and would never care to try.
Which was your favorite science? Biology, Physics or Chemistry?
Biology - and I never took physics
Have you ever had a surprise party? (that was an actual surprise)
I haven’t had one for me, but I gave John one for his 21st birthday - and it was definitely a surprise.
Have you ever worn clothing with the labels/tags still attached?
Not the outside labels.
Have you ever slipped on a banana skin?
Fortunately no. I fall over almost anything, though.
Are you scared of the dark?
No.
Do you have a lawyer?
Not right now. The guy who wrote our wills has died. We’re waiting for Sarah.
If you had a paid year off, what would you want to do?
Since I’m retired, I’m pretty much there. But if someone wanted to pay all my expenses for a year, I’d travel.
How long did your last phone call last?
I was talking to a doctor’s office, making an appointment. It was probably 15 minutes or so.
Have you ever helped someone across the road?
It’s much more likely that someone will help ME across the road - at least I hope someone will help.
Have you ever been wolf whistled in public?
If that happened, I totally missed it.
Stolen from: My Random Randomness
I haven’t watch quiz shows in years, but I have been known to shout at the TV
Do you get over-involved with TV or movie plots at times?
Not really, although I do cry sometimes.
What's the highest hill or mountain you've ever climbed?
Climbed? None. But the highest I’ve been on is in Switzerland, the Jungfraujoch (3,454 m.)
What's the fastest you've ever traveled in a car?
Maybe 80+ MPH.
Could you ever hand milk a cow?
I doubt it very seriously - and would never care to try.
Which was your favorite science? Biology, Physics or Chemistry?
Biology - and I never took physics
Have you ever had a surprise party? (that was an actual surprise)
I haven’t had one for me, but I gave John one for his 21st birthday - and it was definitely a surprise.
Have you ever worn clothing with the labels/tags still attached?
Not the outside labels.
Have you ever slipped on a banana skin?
Fortunately no. I fall over almost anything, though.
Are you scared of the dark?
No.
Do you have a lawyer?
Not right now. The guy who wrote our wills has died. We’re waiting for Sarah.
If you had a paid year off, what would you want to do?
Since I’m retired, I’m pretty much there. But if someone wanted to pay all my expenses for a year, I’d travel.
How long did your last phone call last?
I was talking to a doctor’s office, making an appointment. It was probably 15 minutes or so.
Have you ever helped someone across the road?
It’s much more likely that someone will help ME across the road - at least I hope someone will help.
Have you ever been wolf whistled in public?
If that happened, I totally missed it.
Saturday, August 01, 2015
Culinary fusion
Fusion is the melding of several cuisines, hopefully to the enhancement of all.
I frequently head into meal prep with the intention of using leftovers, both fresh and out of the freezer. Tonight was no exception.
I had rice and fresh field peas (from Margaret and Bobby) left over from dinner last night. I thought I could add some sausage (kielbasa or brats) and come up with something like a Cajun red beans and rice. As I rummaged through the freezer, I realized there was none of that meat. All I could find sausage-type was breakfast sausage and two kinds of Italian sausage - hot and mild.
Well, let’s see what I can do with that.
So the dinner in a bowl was rice, field peas, and crumbled, browned, mild and hot Italian sausage. It was really quite good (if not reproducible). I guess we wound up with…
Cajun-Italian-Southern Fusion Cuisine.
Thursday, July 30, 2015
Special Thursday
We didn't have anything on the calendar today, so we did something special.
We went to the Hunter Museum of American Art, and saw this summer's special exhibit, Monet and the American Impressionists. It's a super exhibit. I hope anyone who can possibly get here to come see it. It'll be here until midSeptember.
After we left, we went to La Altena (our favorite Mexican place) for lunch.
It was a great way to spend a hot summer day.
We went to the Hunter Museum of American Art, and saw this summer's special exhibit, Monet and the American Impressionists. It's a super exhibit. I hope anyone who can possibly get here to come see it. It'll be here until midSeptember.
After we left, we went to La Altena (our favorite Mexican place) for lunch.
It was a great way to spend a hot summer day.
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
Pretty normal
I did my swim class and coffee this morning, and we went to visit Renna in a rehab facility. She had back surgery several months ago, and developed an infection. It's really been awful for her. She's hoping to be able to go home by mid August.
I have an appointment next week with a spine surgeon, and called another to see if maybe I could get an earlier appointment with another surgeon. After lots of questions and history-taking from the PA at the second office, I was offered an appointment in late August. We'll be gone then, so I took an appointment on 2 September. I'll probably cancel it, but will keep it on the books, in case I think I need a second opinion.
The weather-guesser is saying that a “cold front” is coming through. He says it’ll still be hot, but will be cooler overnight, with considerably less humidity. That’d be a refreshing change.
I have an appointment next week with a spine surgeon, and called another to see if maybe I could get an earlier appointment with another surgeon. After lots of questions and history-taking from the PA at the second office, I was offered an appointment in late August. We'll be gone then, so I took an appointment on 2 September. I'll probably cancel it, but will keep it on the books, in case I think I need a second opinion.
The weather-guesser is saying that a “cold front” is coming through. He says it’ll still be hot, but will be cooler overnight, with considerably less humidity. That’d be a refreshing change.
Tuesday, July 28, 2015
Ten Things Tuesday
1. Only one grocery store today.
2. I forgot only a couple of things.
3. My massage was great, as usual.
4. I tried to make an appointment with another surgeon for an earlier appointment. They’re to call me back.
5. John went to a class for first-time-Android users and says he learned some things.
6. He went back to the dentist to get some adjustment to his implanted tooth.
7. Pop-up thundershowers in the area, but only a few drops of rain at our house.
8. Tina brought carry-out from Formosa for us and Missy.
9. Always great to spend time with the girls.
10. Petty Officer Randall Smith was laid to rest at our National Cemetery today, the last burial of the five servicemen killed here on 16 July. RIP
2. I forgot only a couple of things.
3. My massage was great, as usual.
4. I tried to make an appointment with another surgeon for an earlier appointment. They’re to call me back.
5. John went to a class for first-time-Android users and says he learned some things.
6. He went back to the dentist to get some adjustment to his implanted tooth.
7. Pop-up thundershowers in the area, but only a few drops of rain at our house.
8. Tina brought carry-out from Formosa for us and Missy.
9. Always great to spend time with the girls.
10. Petty Officer Randall Smith was laid to rest at our National Cemetery today, the last burial of the five servicemen killed here on 16 July. RIP
Monday, July 27, 2015
If it ain't roaches.....
If it ain’t roaches, it’s piss-ants!
It’s an old Wheeler family expression, but WAY too true!
Bobby has been doing fairly well. Margaret got to go to the beach. Then Bobby fell and broke his femur, requiring surgery and rehab.
John’s got the good news that his lung cancer is in remission. The same day he fell down in the driveway and sprained his ankle.
Jean has had some major changes in her life.
My left shoulder (the one with the reverse prosthesis) is doing fairly well. The right “shoulder” problem is another matter. When the doc walks back in the treatment room, looks at your cervical spine x-rays, and says, “Oooh! I figured it was bad, but not this bad.”, it is NOT good news. Two of the vertebrae are already fused and somewhat twisted, another is subluxed (slipped) over its neighbor, and the next words out of his mouth are “surgery”, and “Do you have a spine doctor?” Well, shit!
He told me not to see a chiropracter, but that it was okay to go to the massage therapist (thank heavens!). And the dear man did prescribe me a cortisone dose-pack for some immediate pain relief. So I came home, got on the phone, and now have an appointment with a spine surgeon next week.
Sighhhhhh
It’s an old Wheeler family expression, but WAY too true!
Bobby has been doing fairly well. Margaret got to go to the beach. Then Bobby fell and broke his femur, requiring surgery and rehab.
John’s got the good news that his lung cancer is in remission. The same day he fell down in the driveway and sprained his ankle.
Jean has had some major changes in her life.
My left shoulder (the one with the reverse prosthesis) is doing fairly well. The right “shoulder” problem is another matter. When the doc walks back in the treatment room, looks at your cervical spine x-rays, and says, “Oooh! I figured it was bad, but not this bad.”, it is NOT good news. Two of the vertebrae are already fused and somewhat twisted, another is subluxed (slipped) over its neighbor, and the next words out of his mouth are “surgery”, and “Do you have a spine doctor?” Well, shit!
He told me not to see a chiropracter, but that it was okay to go to the massage therapist (thank heavens!). And the dear man did prescribe me a cortisone dose-pack for some immediate pain relief. So I came home, got on the phone, and now have an appointment with a spine surgeon next week.
Sighhhhhh
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Sunday Stealing
I’ll spread my wings and I’ll learn how to fly Meme
Stolen from: Gabs survey
1. Have you ever had a pen pal?
I think I did, but it was a zillion years ago.
2. What’s your favorite breed of dog?
Mutt, rescue dog, yours
3. Can money buy happiness?
It’s what they say - money doesn’t buy happiness, but it can buy you a way to be unhappy.
4. Do you listen to music when you’re down?
I like to listen to music anytime.
5.What is one thing you spend way too much money on?
Probably yarn, but not really that much.
6.Can you honestly say you’re okay right now?
Not too bad - could definitely be worse.
7.What was the last thing you spent money on?
Coffee at Panera
8.Is your current hair color mostly your natural hair color?
It’s all my own grey
9.Who have you texted in the last 24 hours?
Jean, Tina, Renna, Missy
10.Were you in a good mood last night?
Sure - I’m in a good mood most of the time.
11.Do you have a reason to smile right now?
It’s been a pretty good day
12. How often do you hold back what you want to say?
Probably not often enough
13. Do you think that in the end, everything will fall into place?
Things don’t always work out like they’re supposed to, but I guess they do most of the time.
14.Are you currently looking forward to anything?
Near term - massage next week; next month, Canadian Rockies
15.Do you have any TV shows on DVD?
Northern Exposure, Sports Night, probably some others.
Stolen from: Gabs survey
1. Have you ever had a pen pal?
I think I did, but it was a zillion years ago.
2. What’s your favorite breed of dog?
Mutt, rescue dog, yours
3. Can money buy happiness?
It’s what they say - money doesn’t buy happiness, but it can buy you a way to be unhappy.
4. Do you listen to music when you’re down?
I like to listen to music anytime.
5.What is one thing you spend way too much money on?
Probably yarn, but not really that much.
6.Can you honestly say you’re okay right now?
Not too bad - could definitely be worse.
7.What was the last thing you spent money on?
Coffee at Panera
8.Is your current hair color mostly your natural hair color?
It’s all my own grey
9.Who have you texted in the last 24 hours?
Jean, Tina, Renna, Missy
10.Were you in a good mood last night?
Sure - I’m in a good mood most of the time.
11.Do you have a reason to smile right now?
It’s been a pretty good day
12. How often do you hold back what you want to say?
Probably not often enough
13. Do you think that in the end, everything will fall into place?
Things don’t always work out like they’re supposed to, but I guess they do most of the time.
14.Are you currently looking forward to anything?
Near term - massage next week; next month, Canadian Rockies
15.Do you have any TV shows on DVD?
Northern Exposure, Sports Night, probably some others.
Saturday, July 25, 2015
Saturday miscellany
It was another quiet day.
We were sitting on the porch this afternoon, when I noticed a bluebird fluttering around the bluebird house. This is not the time for them to start a family, so I started watching. Over the course of about 15 minutes, there were 3-4 bluebirds flying around the house. They were looking in the hole, sitting on the top or on nearby perches. Sometimes two of them were looking in the hole. Who knows what was going on. Tina suggested that perhaps that a "new couple" had gotten a "real estate agent" to show them around the neighborhood. Love that as an explanation.
Matt had been at home, helping Margaret and Bobby. He stopped here on his way back home, bringing a "care package" from Margaret. There were grapes, bags of shelled field peas (frozen), okra, two kinds of squash, and dozens of tomatoes! We took Matt to out to dinner, and enjoyed getting a chance to talk to him, finding out what he was up to, getting an update on next year's wedding plans, etc.
I finished off the day with a couple of tomatoes for dessert!
We were sitting on the porch this afternoon, when I noticed a bluebird fluttering around the bluebird house. This is not the time for them to start a family, so I started watching. Over the course of about 15 minutes, there were 3-4 bluebirds flying around the house. They were looking in the hole, sitting on the top or on nearby perches. Sometimes two of them were looking in the hole. Who knows what was going on. Tina suggested that perhaps that a "new couple" had gotten a "real estate agent" to show them around the neighborhood. Love that as an explanation.
Matt had been at home, helping Margaret and Bobby. He stopped here on his way back home, bringing a "care package" from Margaret. There were grapes, bags of shelled field peas (frozen), okra, two kinds of squash, and dozens of tomatoes! We took Matt to out to dinner, and enjoyed getting a chance to talk to him, finding out what he was up to, getting an update on next year's wedding plans, etc.
I finished off the day with a couple of tomatoes for dessert!
Friday, July 24, 2015
R.I.P.
Marine Sgt. Carson Holmquist
Naval Logistic Specialist Randall Miller
Marine Gunnery Sgt. Thomas Sullivan
Marine Lance Cpl. Squire "Skip" Wells
Marine Staff Sgt. David Wyatt
Thursday, July 23, 2015
A Thought for Today
There are two kinds of truth: the truth that lights the way and the truth that warms the heart. The first of these is science, and the second is art. Neither is independent of the other or more important than the other. Without art, science would be as useless as a pair of high forceps in the hands of a plumber. Without science, art would become a crude mess of folklore and emotional quackery. The truth of art keeps science from becoming inhuman, and the truth of science keeps art from becoming ridiculous. -Raymond Thornton Chandler, writer (23 Jul 1888-1959)
From: A Word A Day
Wednesday, July 22, 2015
Tough Wednseday
I’ve had a tough time trying to write the last few days. Nothing much has been going on with us personally.
The horror that engulfed Chattanooga last Thursday has pretty much consumed all news and all conversations. The mourning for the fallen is ongoing and the pain will last and last. But life goes on.
Two of the funerals will be here, the first on Friday. Both burials will be in the National Cemetery here in Chattanooga. Marine Staff Sgt. David Wyatt and Naval Logistic Specialist Randall Miller had put down roots in our community and their loved ones wanted them to be here. Sgt. Wyatt’s service will be limited to family and military personnel, but they have asked that people wishing to pay their respects line the streets between the church and the Cemetery. I can guarantee you the route will be solidly lined for the just under 10 mile route.
We’re glad we live in this proud and caring community.
The horror that engulfed Chattanooga last Thursday has pretty much consumed all news and all conversations. The mourning for the fallen is ongoing and the pain will last and last. But life goes on.
Two of the funerals will be here, the first on Friday. Both burials will be in the National Cemetery here in Chattanooga. Marine Staff Sgt. David Wyatt and Naval Logistic Specialist Randall Miller had put down roots in our community and their loved ones wanted them to be here. Sgt. Wyatt’s service will be limited to family and military personnel, but they have asked that people wishing to pay their respects line the streets between the church and the Cemetery. I can guarantee you the route will be solidly lined for the just under 10 mile route.
We’re glad we live in this proud and caring community.
Monday, July 20, 2015
Sunday, July 19, 2015
Steamy Sunday
We did a little cleaning up on the deck before it got too hot. The painters had to move everything to get to the side of the house. We got rid of a bunch of stuff. We also got some stuff "neatened" up so the cleaning lady could get at the underneath area when she comes tomorrow. John will probably come to the Y with me in the morning. He doesn't want to be here when "she" comes, but the area where he walks is still blocked off for the crime scene investigation.
That's so horrible to have to say and deal with. Today, we just heard about another serviceman who was wounded and has now been released from the hospital. Turns out the Reserve Center was full of Marines just back from maneuvers. They haven't released nearly all of this story yet.
That's so horrible to have to say and deal with. Today, we just heard about another serviceman who was wounded and has now been released from the hospital. Turns out the Reserve Center was full of Marines just back from maneuvers. They haven't released nearly all of this story yet.
Friday, July 17, 2015
Hard times
Our city is still reeling from yesterday’s horror. So many questions and so few answers. We can only honor the Marines and hold fast to their grieving families. And we can try to start the healing process for all of us.
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Did you read about the visit to the White House this morning by the oldest living veteran? She’s a 110-year-old woman who enlisted in the Women’s Army Corps in 1943 at age 38, and drove a jeep for the Army. She was to be given a special t-shirt to wear. Her granddaughter said: "It was supposed to be a short sleeve shirt. But we decided to give her a blouse, she's going to have her arms covered up because she says she doesn't have 'Michelle Obama arms' so she cannot go in there short sleeves on, she said that's not happening." You have to love this feisty old broad!
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Something amazing happened last night. I slept straight through the night. Not even one potty break or wake-up because of pain. I realize that “normal” people do this all the time, but I can’t remember the last time it happened to me.
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Did you read about the visit to the White House this morning by the oldest living veteran? She’s a 110-year-old woman who enlisted in the Women’s Army Corps in 1943 at age 38, and drove a jeep for the Army. She was to be given a special t-shirt to wear. Her granddaughter said: "It was supposed to be a short sleeve shirt. But we decided to give her a blouse, she's going to have her arms covered up because she says she doesn't have 'Michelle Obama arms' so she cannot go in there short sleeves on, she said that's not happening." You have to love this feisty old broad!
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Something amazing happened last night. I slept straight through the night. Not even one potty break or wake-up because of pain. I realize that “normal” people do this all the time, but I can’t remember the last time it happened to me.
Thursday, July 16, 2015
Our hearts are broken!
The first I saw of today's horror was an alert on FaceBook from the Chattanooga Times Free Press that there had been a shooting at the River Park.
I didn’t turn on the TV or know anything else until FJ called me from Nashville about 1 p.m. to ask what was happening here. Then I turned on the TV.
The shootings were at two locations - a recruiting office on and a Marine/Naval Reserve Center. One of these locations is about five miles from us - just across the Tennessee River. It's where John goes to walk on the River Walk. There were four Marines killed, plus the shooter. There were no fatalities at the first site. The second one is on a major street, about a mile from the main police station. This is why the police response was so fast. One police officer and two others were wounded, one critically.
As information emerged over the day, we found out that the shooter grew up in Chattanooga and lived with his family in this general area - a nice neighborhood where several of our friends live.
This is certainly not anything we'd expect anywhere, much less in our quiet city, or literally in our neighborhood. Of course, there's been nothing else on our local stations all day.
To quote our governor, “Chattanooga is a great city, with a broken heart.”
Wednesday, July 15, 2015
Wednesday happenings
I had my mani/pedi this morning. I had such wild nails for the beach time (turquoise and pink, with palm trees and seagulls), but I was tired of looking at them. Back to the usual almost-natural-with-a-sparkly-layer.
When I got home, the painters had started with the pressure washing. John stayed home to get them started. They'll be back tomorrow to start painting.
His ankle must be pretty bad, because he's really letting me "treat" him today. He's spent most of the day in the chair with the foot elevated and with an ice pack. Plus he's taken some pain meds. Also, I found a support boot that I used when I had foot surgery. That's been a great help when he has to walk - and he's been using a cane. There's been some swelling, but not too bad.
When I got home, the painters had started with the pressure washing. John stayed home to get them started. They'll be back tomorrow to start painting.
His ankle must be pretty bad, because he's really letting me "treat" him today. He's spent most of the day in the chair with the foot elevated and with an ice pack. Plus he's taken some pain meds. Also, I found a support boot that I used when I had foot surgery. That's been a great help when he has to walk - and he's been using a cane. There's been some swelling, but not too bad.
Tuesday, July 14, 2015
The best news ever!
John had his CT scan this morning. And he is officially IN REMISSION!!! No oncology appointments for 3 months. We had been getting increasingly antsy over the results - as you might expect. So, WOW, what a relief!
But, as we all know, Mother Nature has her way of keeping us humble, and She thumbed her nose at John. As he was going to bring the car up the driveway, he rolled his ankle and fell. Other than a skinned knee and some scrapes, the worst problem is a bruised hip and a severely sprained ankle.
The poor baby has really been limping around, but has kept it iced and elevated and has even taken some pain medicine.
The painters are coming to start on the outside of the house in the morning, so he has to be at home anyway. More rest and ice.
Monday, July 13, 2015
Another week
Update: Bobby has been having good PT sessions and has been moved to a skilled care facility in Sewanee. He’s doing well from the broken leg, it seems, but I don’t think this changes his long-term prognosis.
We bit the bullet and picked out new recliners yesterday. They should be delivered in early September. It was relatively painless, and only took about an hour. Then we went to Bonefish Grille. John got what he always does - the Mussels Josephine - an appetizer, but a huge bowl of steamed mussels. I had grilled tuna. I love it, but don't get it every time. Yum!
I found a special book over the weekend. A terrific old book, The Cowboy and the Cossack, by Claire Huffaker, has been reissured as an e-book. I pounced on it, and John’s already reading it. (Kate and Jean, take notice.)
Bridge today was great, at least for me. I had some terrific cards. And, if I do say so myself, bid and played them quite well. It was the kind of day that keeps us playing this silly game.
We bit the bullet and picked out new recliners yesterday. They should be delivered in early September. It was relatively painless, and only took about an hour. Then we went to Bonefish Grille. John got what he always does - the Mussels Josephine - an appetizer, but a huge bowl of steamed mussels. I had grilled tuna. I love it, but don't get it every time. Yum!
I found a special book over the weekend. A terrific old book, The Cowboy and the Cossack, by Claire Huffaker, has been reissured as an e-book. I pounced on it, and John’s already reading it. (Kate and Jean, take notice.)
Bridge today was great, at least for me. I had some terrific cards. And, if I do say so myself, bid and played them quite well. It was the kind of day that keeps us playing this silly game.
Sunday, July 12, 2015
Sunday Stealing
I Want To Be Famous Meme
Stolen from: Surveysurveysurvey
1. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
Not really.
2. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Not on a social call.
3. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
I try not to look for “perfection” - just take it as it comes.
4. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
Only in the car, to myself. Or maybe singing Happy Birthday to a friend.
5. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
Since I’m nearly 80, I’d definitely want the both of a 30-year-old. I’d hate to have to learn all that stuff again.
6. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
Nothing I think about.
7. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
My family, my friends, and the travels we’ve been able to do.
8. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
I would have liked to have been closer to my sister.
9. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
To take better care of myself.
10. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
I don’t think I’d like to know the future.
11. What does friendship mean to you?
It’s very important.
12. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
A major part
13. When did you last laugh?
I laugh a lot, but can’t remember the last time specifically.
14. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
Some of each now.
15. Seen anything weird lately?
Only when I look in the mirror.
Stolen from: Surveysurveysurvey
1. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
Not really.
2. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
Not on a social call.
3. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
I try not to look for “perfection” - just take it as it comes.
4. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
Only in the car, to myself. Or maybe singing Happy Birthday to a friend.
5. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
Since I’m nearly 80, I’d definitely want the both of a 30-year-old. I’d hate to have to learn all that stuff again.
6. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
Nothing I think about.
7. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
My family, my friends, and the travels we’ve been able to do.
8. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
I would have liked to have been closer to my sister.
9. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
To take better care of myself.
10. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
I don’t think I’d like to know the future.
11. What does friendship mean to you?
It’s very important.
12. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
A major part
13. When did you last laugh?
I laugh a lot, but can’t remember the last time specifically.
14. Are you a morning person or a night owl?
Some of each now.
15. Seen anything weird lately?
Only when I look in the mirror.
Friday, July 10, 2015
Updates
Margaret texted that the PT folks worked Bobby very hard. He'll probably be in the hospital through the weekend and then be moved to a skilled care facility in a nearby town.
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Marion came to coffee for the first time since her total knee replacement 8 weeks ago. She's walking pretty well.
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We went to see Renna in the hospital after coffee. She's doing well, but will be there for a while longer. She's in pretty good spirits.
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We had the terrible cards at duplicate today, and didn't play that well, either. I guess this is pay-back for coming in first last time.
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I think we're both getting pretty antsy about John's appointment next week and his first post-treatment scan. This will let us know if he's now in remission.
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Marion came to coffee for the first time since her total knee replacement 8 weeks ago. She's walking pretty well.
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We went to see Renna in the hospital after coffee. She's doing well, but will be there for a while longer. She's in pretty good spirits.
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We had the terrible cards at duplicate today, and didn't play that well, either. I guess this is pay-back for coming in first last time.
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I think we're both getting pretty antsy about John's appointment next week and his first post-treatment scan. This will let us know if he's now in remission.
Thursday, July 09, 2015
Thursday Thirteen
1. Bobby is now in a regular room, getting blood products and PT.
2. His surgery involved plate and screw fixation of the femur fracture.
3. The seven (!) tree trimmers came on time this morning.
4. They finished in less than 45 minutes and cleaned up everything!
5. We had a great lunch at Sticky Fingers with Diane and Harry.
6. I got a short nap.
7. John got a long nap.
8. Tina came by for a little while.
9. Our friend, Renna, is still in the hospital fighting a severe infection.
10. The World Champion US Women’s Soccer Team will be playing an exhibition match in Chattanooga.
11. Tickets were sold out in two hours. Scalping in Chattanooga?
12. Hooray for the South Carolina Legislature for voting to remove the Confederate battle flag from their state capital grounds.
13. It’s summer - hot, hazy, humid, temperatures in the mid90s, chance of late afternoon thunderstorms.
Wednesday, July 08, 2015
Update plus miscellaneous stuff
Bobby had his first PT session today. She said he stood up twice, but didn't make it to the chair. They’re keeping in the ICU again tonight. His blood pressure is too low and his “blood is thin”. They’re giving him blood/blood products. She’s staying with him - in a recliner chair.
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After coffee this morning, I did grocery stores again. I could only do Walmart yesterday because of the pain in my knee. I went to Publix for one specific thing, but got some Rainier cherries (a once-a-year splurge) and some peaches, too. Then I went to Aldi for some basics from there. And my knee went "out" in each store. So I guess it's any grocery store that bothers my knee - not just Walmart. I'll do what John wants and start riding a cart in stores that have them. Plus wear the knee brace and maybe carry a cane.
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I love Canadians! Click here for a story that really tickled my funny bone.
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After coffee this morning, I did grocery stores again. I could only do Walmart yesterday because of the pain in my knee. I went to Publix for one specific thing, but got some Rainier cherries (a once-a-year splurge) and some peaches, too. Then I went to Aldi for some basics from there. And my knee went "out" in each store. So I guess it's any grocery store that bothers my knee - not just Walmart. I'll do what John wants and start riding a cart in stores that have them. Plus wear the knee brace and maybe carry a cane.
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I love Canadians! Click here for a story that really tickled my funny bone.
Tuesday, July 07, 2015
Good thoughts, please.
Margaret's Bobby fell this morning and broke his leg, just below the hip. They got him right to the hospital, and he had pinning surgery this evening. He did well and is in ICU for the night. Updates when we have some.
Monday, July 06, 2015
Routines
First day back on the way to routines. I saw the rheumatologist this morning - they did a blood draw for a sed rate to test for polymyalgia rheumatic. Plus he increased the muscle relaxants. Bridge went well - I even got pretty good cards (not so much for John). And we went to 5 Guys and Fries for dinner.
The oncology office postponed John's appointments until next Tuesday - the doc is out of town this week. So now we have to wait a few more days to find out if he's in remission. Oh, well....
The oncology office postponed John's appointments until next Tuesday - the doc is out of town this week. So now we have to wait a few more days to find out if he's in remission. Oh, well....
Sunday, July 05, 2015
From the Chattanooga Times Free Press of 5 July 2016:
Educator and social justice advocate Franklin McCallie delivered the following remarks to about 100 Chattanooga residents who gathered to honor the nine Americans who were slain in a Charleston S.C., church on June 12, 2015.
Dr. McCallie begins “We gather tonight, first and foremost, to remember and grieve nine American citizens who were slain … because they were black.”
I won’t quote the whole speech here, but will copy a few sections. You can click here to read the entire talk (not too long).
Dr. McCallie describes himself as “…a 75-year old, white, Southern-speaking man. I was born and raised in Chattanooga at a time when we were - and still are - refighting the Civil War. During my first 20 years, I held a strong allegiance to the Confederate flag, to Robert E. Lee and to Stonewall Jackson. "
John was particularly taken with this passage from McCallie’s remarks: “When Muslim terrorists murder innocent people, the vast majority of Americans - liberals, conservatives, Democrats, Republicans, Independents, Libertarians, tea party - all cry out: ‘Why don’t the moderate, peace loving Muslims handle their own?’
"But when white American terrorists murder black Americans, some in those same political groups shout: ‘That wasn’t racism! That was a deranged mind!’ Certainly it’s a deranged mind. Deranged first with a culture that injects white people with mind-corroding views against black citizens!
"Right-thinking, white Americans must step up to challenge a system that keeps black people poor, that closes the door to good education and to jobs, and that sends disproportionate numbers of black men to prison. And ‘nice,’ even well-intentioned, white people who do nothing to help fix this problem help to sustain this racist culture.”
Amen!
I encourage you to read the whole piece - it’s well worth a few minutes.
Educator and social justice advocate Franklin McCallie delivered the following remarks to about 100 Chattanooga residents who gathered to honor the nine Americans who were slain in a Charleston S.C., church on June 12, 2015.
Dr. McCallie begins “We gather tonight, first and foremost, to remember and grieve nine American citizens who were slain … because they were black.”
I won’t quote the whole speech here, but will copy a few sections. You can click here to read the entire talk (not too long).
Dr. McCallie describes himself as “…a 75-year old, white, Southern-speaking man. I was born and raised in Chattanooga at a time when we were - and still are - refighting the Civil War. During my first 20 years, I held a strong allegiance to the Confederate flag, to Robert E. Lee and to Stonewall Jackson. "
John was particularly taken with this passage from McCallie’s remarks: “When Muslim terrorists murder innocent people, the vast majority of Americans - liberals, conservatives, Democrats, Republicans, Independents, Libertarians, tea party - all cry out: ‘Why don’t the moderate, peace loving Muslims handle their own?’
"But when white American terrorists murder black Americans, some in those same political groups shout: ‘That wasn’t racism! That was a deranged mind!’ Certainly it’s a deranged mind. Deranged first with a culture that injects white people with mind-corroding views against black citizens!
"Right-thinking, white Americans must step up to challenge a system that keeps black people poor, that closes the door to good education and to jobs, and that sends disproportionate numbers of black men to prison. And ‘nice,’ even well-intentioned, white people who do nothing to help fix this problem help to sustain this racist culture.”
Amen!
I encourage you to read the whole piece - it’s well worth a few minutes.
Saturday, July 04, 2015
Happy Fourth of July!
Happy Fourth of July! Amid all the family, food, and fun, be sure to remember what this day celebrates.
We got home a couple of hours ago, after a great, quiet week at the beach - with our family, friends, food, and fun. I had hoped that the drive today would be easier - on the holiday itself. And that was indeed the case. It took us just over 7.5 hours (which included a stop for lunch). Plus we had no rain. When we got home, I turned on our local weather and it showed heavy rain storms all along I-65 through Alabama - just the way we drove home. So we obviously missed bad stuff.
Most of the stuff is unpacked and put away. I'll do the laundry tomorrow, as usual, and we'll maybe get back to what we laughingly call normal.
We got home a couple of hours ago, after a great, quiet week at the beach - with our family, friends, food, and fun. I had hoped that the drive today would be easier - on the holiday itself. And that was indeed the case. It took us just over 7.5 hours (which included a stop for lunch). Plus we had no rain. When we got home, I turned on our local weather and it showed heavy rain storms all along I-65 through Alabama - just the way we drove home. So we obviously missed bad stuff.
Most of the stuff is unpacked and put away. I'll do the laundry tomorrow, as usual, and we'll maybe get back to what we laughingly call normal.
Wednesday, July 01, 2015
From the Mobile Press-Register
I'm going to copy and paste this article by Clete Wetli from today's Mobile Press-Register. But you can click here and read it on the newspaper's web site. It's definitely worth reading.
In the aftermath of Charleston, McKinney, and the Baltimore riots, America is finally realizing the true damage caused by far right religious conservatives and the Republican Party who have spent decades fueling and manipulating the hatred of angry white men.
They are angry they lost the "War of Northern Aggression". They are angry that some people get help from the government. They are angry that 'Mericuh has a black President. They are angry that people have sex for recreation instead of procreation. They are angry that gays are ruining their third marriage. Heck, they are angry that lawn darts were recalled and that women think they should be paid the same as men... in the army!
The angry white men are just outraged that poor people may be getting government subsidized cheese and, now, the internet... those cheddar-eating lazy bums and their Obama-phones! (Well, except for the fact that government subsidized cell phones were spawned during the Reagan Administration... it's still Obama's fault!)
They are so angry that Obama just got to say the "n-word" publicly and they can't. They are angry that they have to be politically correct and angry that they don't really know what that means. They are angry that they just can't fly their confederate flags without having to explain it to a bunch of college educated lefties who don't know squat about heritage or that "Gone With The Wind" was actually a documentary.
They are angry when they have to talk about global warming when it just snowed last January.
All this anger started bubbling into a boil as a reaction to the counterculture of sex, drugs, and rock-n-roll that began in the 1960's and 1970's. By the 1980's, conservatives were sure that America was doomed to moral bankruptcy and that it could only be saved by channeling the political energy of angry white men.
Thus, the myth of "the welfare queen". Thus, the myth of rampant government waste, fraud, and abuse. Thus, the myth that the government is coming for your guns.
Perhaps, the biggest myth of all is that American Exceptionalism is somehow guaranteed by prayer in schools or giving tax breaks to "job creators" on Wall Street, rather than creating a level economic playing field that facilitates upward financial mobility.
Yet, the angry white men are finally reaping what they have sown. Even in Alabama, Governor Bentley has begun to realize that the state needs federal dollars to survive. Bentley has even figured out that the people of Alabama need healthcare, but he hasn't quite figured out how to expand Medicaid and blame Obama simultaneously.
The angry white men are realizing that their beloved Republican Party is dying off and that there is a pronounced insanity in screaming, "Get your government hands off my Medicare!" Yes, the angry white men are even starting to consider whether having guns in church and at the ball park is really such a great idea after all.
Perhaps, South Carolina Senator and Presidential long-shot contender, Lindsey Graham said it best for the Republicans when he opined, ""The demographics race we're losing badly, we're not generating enough angry white guys to stay in business for the long term."
Good. The rest of America is getting tired of dealing with angry white men and their obsession with racism and class division. It's long past time to elevate the debate about our nation's problems above the very low bar that seems to be set by Fox News, Rush Limbaugh, and Ann Coulter.
It'll be a wonderful day in America when the last angry white guy cries, "I've fallen and I can't get up."
About the writerClete Wetli is a liberal, political activist and works as the Executive Director for First Stop, Inc. His opinions are solely his own and not representative of First Stop, Inc. or the Madison County Democratic Party. He can be reached at decaturclete@gmail.com.
In the aftermath of Charleston, McKinney, and the Baltimore riots, America is finally realizing the true damage caused by far right religious conservatives and the Republican Party who have spent decades fueling and manipulating the hatred of angry white men.
They are angry they lost the "War of Northern Aggression". They are angry that some people get help from the government. They are angry that 'Mericuh has a black President. They are angry that people have sex for recreation instead of procreation. They are angry that gays are ruining their third marriage. Heck, they are angry that lawn darts were recalled and that women think they should be paid the same as men... in the army!
The angry white men are just outraged that poor people may be getting government subsidized cheese and, now, the internet... those cheddar-eating lazy bums and their Obama-phones! (Well, except for the fact that government subsidized cell phones were spawned during the Reagan Administration... it's still Obama's fault!)
They are so angry that Obama just got to say the "n-word" publicly and they can't. They are angry that they have to be politically correct and angry that they don't really know what that means. They are angry that they just can't fly their confederate flags without having to explain it to a bunch of college educated lefties who don't know squat about heritage or that "Gone With The Wind" was actually a documentary.
They are angry when they have to talk about global warming when it just snowed last January.
All this anger started bubbling into a boil as a reaction to the counterculture of sex, drugs, and rock-n-roll that began in the 1960's and 1970's. By the 1980's, conservatives were sure that America was doomed to moral bankruptcy and that it could only be saved by channeling the political energy of angry white men.
Thus, the myth of "the welfare queen". Thus, the myth of rampant government waste, fraud, and abuse. Thus, the myth that the government is coming for your guns.
Perhaps, the biggest myth of all is that American Exceptionalism is somehow guaranteed by prayer in schools or giving tax breaks to "job creators" on Wall Street, rather than creating a level economic playing field that facilitates upward financial mobility.
Yet, the angry white men are finally reaping what they have sown. Even in Alabama, Governor Bentley has begun to realize that the state needs federal dollars to survive. Bentley has even figured out that the people of Alabama need healthcare, but he hasn't quite figured out how to expand Medicaid and blame Obama simultaneously.
The angry white men are realizing that their beloved Republican Party is dying off and that there is a pronounced insanity in screaming, "Get your government hands off my Medicare!" Yes, the angry white men are even starting to consider whether having guns in church and at the ball park is really such a great idea after all.
Perhaps, South Carolina Senator and Presidential long-shot contender, Lindsey Graham said it best for the Republicans when he opined, ""The demographics race we're losing badly, we're not generating enough angry white guys to stay in business for the long term."
Good. The rest of America is getting tired of dealing with angry white men and their obsession with racism and class division. It's long past time to elevate the debate about our nation's problems above the very low bar that seems to be set by Fox News, Rush Limbaugh, and Ann Coulter.
It'll be a wonderful day in America when the last angry white guy cries, "I've fallen and I can't get up."
About the writerClete Wetli is a liberal, political activist and works as the Executive Director for First Stop, Inc. His opinions are solely his own and not representative of First Stop, Inc. or the Madison County Democratic Party. He can be reached at decaturclete@gmail.com.
Sunday, June 28, 2015
Friday, June 26, 2015
Friday Miscellany
The Supreme Court has done wonderful things this week.
The decision in the gay marriage case was long overdue.
In the big scheme of things, the decision about the Affordable Care Act will have a longer reaching impact.
The shooting at the Mother Emanuel Church in Charleston was unspeakable.
The reaction of the wonderful people in Charleston was amazing.
President’s Obama’s eulogy was fabulous - he could have another career as a preacher.
And
Thursday night, there was a terrible fiery accident on I-75 just north of Chattanooga. Six people were killed.
John saw the pulmonologist this morning. He’s doing well, but the doc says he will probably have the cough and shortness of breath for the rest of his life. This is due to the cancer and the radiation.
We played duplicate this afternoon (12 couples) and came in first by a big margin.
The decision in the gay marriage case was long overdue.
In the big scheme of things, the decision about the Affordable Care Act will have a longer reaching impact.
The shooting at the Mother Emanuel Church in Charleston was unspeakable.
The reaction of the wonderful people in Charleston was amazing.
President’s Obama’s eulogy was fabulous - he could have another career as a preacher.
And
Thursday night, there was a terrible fiery accident on I-75 just north of Chattanooga. Six people were killed.
John saw the pulmonologist this morning. He’s doing well, but the doc says he will probably have the cough and shortness of breath for the rest of his life. This is due to the cancer and the radiation.
We played duplicate this afternoon (12 couples) and came in first by a big margin.
Thursday, June 25, 2015
Quiet time
It was a quiet day today - just my massage and starting to accumulate stuff for the beach. Yea!
Wednesday, June 24, 2015
Busy morning
I did a day's work this morning. Swimming, coffee, haircut, library (to pick up the DVD of The Imitation Game).
And the big one - I went to Best Buy and got a new phone! I wanted a Samsung 5 or 6 because of the good camera, and wound up getting a S6. The poor guy worked with me for almost 1.5 hours and really earned his keep. And my learning curve is SO steep now, that I'll be ages learning all the stuff. But, with the in-store rebate card, the whole thing wound up costing me $7.90 out of pocket - can't beat that! Carol & Stephen have new phones, too, (S5 and S6) so they can help me a lot next week at the beach.
We watched the movie tonight. We knew the bare outline of the story of the Enigma Machine, but this excellent movie really fleshed out the story. We definitely recommend this one.
And the big one - I went to Best Buy and got a new phone! I wanted a Samsung 5 or 6 because of the good camera, and wound up getting a S6. The poor guy worked with me for almost 1.5 hours and really earned his keep. And my learning curve is SO steep now, that I'll be ages learning all the stuff. But, with the in-store rebate card, the whole thing wound up costing me $7.90 out of pocket - can't beat that! Carol & Stephen have new phones, too, (S5 and S6) so they can help me a lot next week at the beach.
We watched the movie tonight. We knew the bare outline of the story of the Enigma Machine, but this excellent movie really fleshed out the story. We definitely recommend this one.
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
Ten Things Tuesday
1. I got my mani/pedi this morning.
2. My nail tech went crazy, since we’re headed to the beach.
3. Turquoise and flamingo pink with palm trees and seagulls.
4. Probably back to “normal” next time.
5. Only went to Aldi this morning.
6. Since I didn’t sleep well last night, naps happened today.
7. John rowed and napped.
8. He went to the optometrist this afternoon and had his eyes dilated.
9. The high was 96 (!) today.
10. Grandson-in-law, Joe, sang at church on Father’s Day. Listen here - it’s fabulous!
Monday, June 22, 2015
Back to what we laughingly call normal...
The high here was 96, and supposed to be the same over the next couple of days. Miserable! The cleaning lady was here this morning - always a good thing. We had bridge this afternoon, but neither one of us had much in the way of cards. I’m having a lot of pain in my “good” arm - don’t know why. It’s been getting worse over the last few weeks. I don’t see the orthopedist until August, and I’d like to wait until them to get an x-ray to see if anything is wrong, but we’ll see. I’m going to pass on the grocery stores tomorrow. We’re going to the beach on Saturday, so I don’t need to stock up on anything now anyway.
We have a pretty busy week coming up. John has an eye appointment tomorrow and sees the pulmonologist on Friday. I’ve got appointments for a mani/pedi tomorrow and massage on Thursday, with haircut due sometime.
We are SO ready to go to the beach.
Sunday, June 21, 2015
The Wedding
The Wedding
We had been invited to a wedding this weekend - the wedding of the grandson of one of our oldest friends. It was to be at her house north of Nashville, on a bluff overlooking Old Hickory Lake. We knew it would be a lovely event, and we’d get to see lots of old friends and their families. But…..
The wedding was to be outside…in June…in Tennessee…at 6 p.m. And it was likely to be really hot and humid. In fact, on Thursday night, the predicted weather for that day was 95 degrees, with a 90% chance of thunderstorms. Since I really hate being outside in the heat, I have to admit to obsessing about the prospect of being outside in that weather. And we didn’t know how John would be able to tolerate the heat and activities.
We drove to Nashville Friday morning and met Jean for lunch. Then we drove to Hendersonville to D & FJ’s house, where we were going to stay. It was great to be spending time and visiting with them.
The rehearsal dinner was informal (and indoors). We sat with some family members and enjoyed the conversation, but left before most of the festivities. John had started coughing and we didn’t want to push anything.
Saturday morning was in the 70s and cloudy. The forecast had changed, too, with the rain taken out. We were hoping for the cloudiness to stay so the temperature would stay down. The family had arranged for handicapped access and seating, so we didn’t have far to walk. And, wonder of wonders, the temperatures stayed in the mid80s with bright blue skies, there was a nice breeze, and the area was in the shade. After all my agonizing, it was quite comfortable.
As the guests arrived, each was given a cold bottle of water and a paper fan. On the fan was printed the program of the service and the names of the parents, the bride and groom, the officiant, and the attendants.
The wedding party and the service was a delightful combination of contrasts. It was a blend of Southern traditional with contemporary college students; a blend of secular, Christian, and Jewish; traditional wedding attire and funkiness. The groom wore a suit and tie, with gold lame coated tennis shoes. The bride wore a knee length dress with a short veil (which fell off during the kiss). The bride and groom each had attendants of both sexes. The men wore the same color suits, but obviously picked out their own ties - some straight and some bowties, and one wore a hat. The women were in different dresses and shoes, but all in the purple/lavender/lavender-gray color family. The “flower girl” was their dog.
The introductory music was played by a combo of friends of the couple from college. At the end of the service, after the wedding party had filed out, a Dixieland combo played New Orleans jazz to lead the families from the wedding area. Everything went off with very few hitches, and it was fun.
A large tent was set up in the front yard of the house, and there were hor d’oeuvres and yard games (croquet, corn hole, etc.) to play while pictures were being taken. Unfortunately for us, this was all on the lush grass of the lawn, and FJ is not able to walk on the grass. So we searched out everybody we knew to hug and chat briefly with, and then we left before dinner. I’m sure it was a great dinner and party that lasted well into the evening.
And this morning, we headed back home. It was a long, tiring, and very pleasant weekend. Now to recuperate and get ready to go to the beach in a week.
We had been invited to a wedding this weekend - the wedding of the grandson of one of our oldest friends. It was to be at her house north of Nashville, on a bluff overlooking Old Hickory Lake. We knew it would be a lovely event, and we’d get to see lots of old friends and their families. But…..
The wedding was to be outside…in June…in Tennessee…at 6 p.m. And it was likely to be really hot and humid. In fact, on Thursday night, the predicted weather for that day was 95 degrees, with a 90% chance of thunderstorms. Since I really hate being outside in the heat, I have to admit to obsessing about the prospect of being outside in that weather. And we didn’t know how John would be able to tolerate the heat and activities.
We drove to Nashville Friday morning and met Jean for lunch. Then we drove to Hendersonville to D & FJ’s house, where we were going to stay. It was great to be spending time and visiting with them.
The rehearsal dinner was informal (and indoors). We sat with some family members and enjoyed the conversation, but left before most of the festivities. John had started coughing and we didn’t want to push anything.
Saturday morning was in the 70s and cloudy. The forecast had changed, too, with the rain taken out. We were hoping for the cloudiness to stay so the temperature would stay down. The family had arranged for handicapped access and seating, so we didn’t have far to walk. And, wonder of wonders, the temperatures stayed in the mid80s with bright blue skies, there was a nice breeze, and the area was in the shade. After all my agonizing, it was quite comfortable.
As the guests arrived, each was given a cold bottle of water and a paper fan. On the fan was printed the program of the service and the names of the parents, the bride and groom, the officiant, and the attendants.
The wedding party and the service was a delightful combination of contrasts. It was a blend of Southern traditional with contemporary college students; a blend of secular, Christian, and Jewish; traditional wedding attire and funkiness. The groom wore a suit and tie, with gold lame coated tennis shoes. The bride wore a knee length dress with a short veil (which fell off during the kiss). The bride and groom each had attendants of both sexes. The men wore the same color suits, but obviously picked out their own ties - some straight and some bowties, and one wore a hat. The women were in different dresses and shoes, but all in the purple/lavender/lavender-gray color family. The “flower girl” was their dog.
The introductory music was played by a combo of friends of the couple from college. At the end of the service, after the wedding party had filed out, a Dixieland combo played New Orleans jazz to lead the families from the wedding area. Everything went off with very few hitches, and it was fun.
A large tent was set up in the front yard of the house, and there were hor d’oeuvres and yard games (croquet, corn hole, etc.) to play while pictures were being taken. Unfortunately for us, this was all on the lush grass of the lawn, and FJ is not able to walk on the grass. So we searched out everybody we knew to hug and chat briefly with, and then we left before dinner. I’m sure it was a great dinner and party that lasted well into the evening.
And this morning, we headed back home. It was a long, tiring, and very pleasant weekend. Now to recuperate and get ready to go to the beach in a week.
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Beyond comprehension
After watching some of the coverage about Charleston tonight, John and I were talking about this and other mass shootings. I guess we all know people who hate, although we don’t really understand that. John thinks people hate because they’re afraid.
But mostly we cannot understand what could possibly be going on in somebody’s head to go into a church, pray with people for an hour, and then start shooting and kill nine worshippers.
The commentators and survivors all say they want to “make sense” of this act. I don’t see how it can ever “make sense”.
It’s beyond comprehension.
But mostly we cannot understand what could possibly be going on in somebody’s head to go into a church, pray with people for an hour, and then start shooting and kill nine worshippers.
The commentators and survivors all say they want to “make sense” of this act. I don’t see how it can ever “make sense”.
It’s beyond comprehension.
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Busy, busy
John and I were going to run separate errands today, but wound up doing them together. When we came out of Panera and got in our separate cars, his wouldn't start. He has a new battery, but knew he was having starter problems. We take our cars to Firestone, which is in the same center as Panera, so I took him there. We brought a guy back with us and he got the car started. We left it at Firestone to get a new starter installed.
Then we went to get John's new glasses (first time he's had any Rx glasses since his cataract surgery, but the doc thought he needed them now). The next stop was at Lowe's to get some Terro to control some little black (sugar) ants. Last was a stop at the credit union to deposit a check.
Home, then back out to pick up the car. That got us to lunchtime and naptime. The afternoon was finished off with a couple of tree-trimmers coming by to give us an estimate on some work that needs to be done.
Quite a busy day for us.
Then we went to get John's new glasses (first time he's had any Rx glasses since his cataract surgery, but the doc thought he needed them now). The next stop was at Lowe's to get some Terro to control some little black (sugar) ants. Last was a stop at the credit union to deposit a check.
Home, then back out to pick up the car. That got us to lunchtime and naptime. The afternoon was finished off with a couple of tree-trimmers coming by to give us an estimate on some work that needs to be done.
Quite a busy day for us.
Monday, June 15, 2015
Amazing
We watched a number of episodes of NCIS on the NCIS Marathon Sunday afternoon. We actually sat two episodes that we hadn't seen before. I didn't know there were any. Amazing!
Sunday, June 14, 2015
Sunday Stealing
Would You Rather Meme, part two
Stolen from: Sign Up Genius
Would you rather go to a movie or to dinner alone?
I don’t mind eating alone, but I’d rather go to a movie alone.
Would you rather always say everything on your mind or never speak again?It would probably be better for all concerned if I just never spoke again.
Would you rather make a phone call or send a text?It depends on how much and what sort of information I need to impart.
Would you rather read an awesome book or watch a good movie?If I have to choose, it would be the book. But again, it would depend on the situation.
Would you rather be the most popular person at work or school or the smartest?I’d rather be the smartest.
Would you rather put a stop to war or end world hunger?
Stop wars. That would probably end world hunger.
Would you rather spend the night in a luxury hotel room or camping surrounded by beautiful scenery?
I’d like to spend the night in a luxury hotel room, and see the beautiful scenery during the day.
Would you rather explore space or the ocean?
The ocean.
Would you rather go deep sea diving or bungee jumping?
Deep sea diving (I used to have scuba certification.)
Would you rather be a kid your whole life or an adult your whole life?
I’d rather be an adult.
Would you rather go on a cruise with friends or with your spouse?
My spouse - and this cruise would be on a small river boat, definitely not on one of those behemoth floating hotels.
Would you rather lose your keys or your cell phone?
Cell phone - with the keys, I could drive to my house and get what it takes to get a new phone.
Would you rather eat a meal of cow tongue or octopus?
Octopus. I love calamari.
Would you rather have x-ray vision or magnified hearing?
X-ray vision, but I’d like it to be “on demand”, not all the time.
Would you rather work in a group or work alone?
Another situational answer, generally I’d prefer to work alone.
Stolen from: Sign Up Genius
Would you rather go to a movie or to dinner alone?
I don’t mind eating alone, but I’d rather go to a movie alone.
Would you rather always say everything on your mind or never speak again?It would probably be better for all concerned if I just never spoke again.
Would you rather make a phone call or send a text?It depends on how much and what sort of information I need to impart.
Would you rather read an awesome book or watch a good movie?If I have to choose, it would be the book. But again, it would depend on the situation.
Would you rather be the most popular person at work or school or the smartest?I’d rather be the smartest.
Would you rather put a stop to war or end world hunger?
Stop wars. That would probably end world hunger.
Would you rather spend the night in a luxury hotel room or camping surrounded by beautiful scenery?
I’d like to spend the night in a luxury hotel room, and see the beautiful scenery during the day.
Would you rather explore space or the ocean?
The ocean.
Would you rather go deep sea diving or bungee jumping?
Deep sea diving (I used to have scuba certification.)
Would you rather be a kid your whole life or an adult your whole life?
I’d rather be an adult.
Would you rather go on a cruise with friends or with your spouse?
My spouse - and this cruise would be on a small river boat, definitely not on one of those behemoth floating hotels.
Would you rather lose your keys or your cell phone?
Cell phone - with the keys, I could drive to my house and get what it takes to get a new phone.
Would you rather eat a meal of cow tongue or octopus?
Octopus. I love calamari.
Would you rather have x-ray vision or magnified hearing?
X-ray vision, but I’d like it to be “on demand”, not all the time.
Would you rather work in a group or work alone?
Another situational answer, generally I’d prefer to work alone.
Saturday, June 13, 2015
Other days
Other days, I'm in the funny papers - Baby Blues this time. Click here and look for the strip for 13 June 2015. I have tried and tried to find a way to put the strip in the blog, but just can't manage it. (This used to be easy to do, and a couple of years ago, Blogger "improved" things, and I haven't been able to post photos since then. I guess this is one trick that this old dog just can't learn. Oh, well.
Friday, June 12, 2015
Some days are better than others
Some days are better than others.
Today didn’t start out much different from any other Friday. But there were things on the calendar - mostly for John.
Today, he was going to try to get on the river…to row for the first time since his diagnosis and chemo/radiation. This was his primary objective for post treatment. He says he didn’t go very far or very hard or for very long. But he was ON THE WATER!!
When he left the boat house, he had an appointment with his cardiologist. John’s been concerned about a rapid heart beat that is exercise-induced. It shows up on a sports monitor that he wears when he exercises, and he was concerned that he was having atrial fibrillation. The doctor had him wear a Holter monitor a week or so ago. He saw the doc this morning. It turns out the reading from the monitor was normal. The doc said he didn’t have a-fib, and he should just continue exercising as he normally would. Only if he had some other symptoms should he be worried and seek further care. Whew! That’s a big worry that doesn’t exist any more.
We played duplicate this afternoon, and came in third out of the seven couples playing the east/west cards. And we now have 5 master points.
Some days are better than others. And today was maybe the best so far this year!
Today didn’t start out much different from any other Friday. But there were things on the calendar - mostly for John.
Today, he was going to try to get on the river…to row for the first time since his diagnosis and chemo/radiation. This was his primary objective for post treatment. He says he didn’t go very far or very hard or for very long. But he was ON THE WATER!!
When he left the boat house, he had an appointment with his cardiologist. John’s been concerned about a rapid heart beat that is exercise-induced. It shows up on a sports monitor that he wears when he exercises, and he was concerned that he was having atrial fibrillation. The doctor had him wear a Holter monitor a week or so ago. He saw the doc this morning. It turns out the reading from the monitor was normal. The doc said he didn’t have a-fib, and he should just continue exercising as he normally would. Only if he had some other symptoms should he be worried and seek further care. Whew! That’s a big worry that doesn’t exist any more.
We played duplicate this afternoon, and came in third out of the seven couples playing the east/west cards. And we now have 5 master points.
Some days are better than others. And today was maybe the best so far this year!
Thursday, June 11, 2015
And again
Today was another day for Friends and Food.
John's rowing partner and her husband have both retired, so we met them for lunch today. We hadn't seen them in a while, so it was great to get caught up over some good food. She and John were both having severe health problems this year. She was in the same hospital where John was having his treatments, at the same time, but we didn't know it then. And both are on the mend, working to regain strength. We've made tentative plans to meet again next month.
It made for smiles!
John's rowing partner and her husband have both retired, so we met them for lunch today. We hadn't seen them in a while, so it was great to get caught up over some good food. She and John were both having severe health problems this year. She was in the same hospital where John was having his treatments, at the same time, but we didn't know it then. And both are on the mend, working to regain strength. We've made tentative plans to meet again next month.
It made for smiles!
Wednesday, June 10, 2015
Hot & humid Wednesday
The last of the painters came to look at the job. We should have an estimate in a day or two, so John can make a decision. Then that job can get underway.
I’ve gotten all of the closet done now, except for the shelves I can’t reach any more (for the out-of-season folded stuff). John will have to get that down for me. That’ll have to wait a day or two, though. The beds are full of stuff I’m giving away, and it’ll have to wait until I make room. But at least I’m working on it.
Carol & Stephen, Missy, and Tina came over and brought KFC for dinner tonight. We ate inside because it was still near 90, with humidity to match. As always it’s great to share fun and food with this group.
I’ve gotten all of the closet done now, except for the shelves I can’t reach any more (for the out-of-season folded stuff). John will have to get that down for me. That’ll have to wait a day or two, though. The beds are full of stuff I’m giving away, and it’ll have to wait until I make room. But at least I’m working on it.
Carol & Stephen, Missy, and Tina came over and brought KFC for dinner tonight. We ate inside because it was still near 90, with humidity to match. As always it’s great to share fun and food with this group.
Tuesday, June 09, 2015
Ten Things Tuesday
1. I got a good night’s sleep!
2. Went to the post office to mail the quarterly tax payment.
3. Went to the library to do the annual renewal of my library card.
4. Went to Aldi.
5. Went to Walmart.
6. My knee didn’t start to hurt until I was almost finished at WM.
7. John had an eye appointment and ordered glasses for the first time since his cataract surgery.
8. We both had good naps.
9. Made plans to meet John’s old rowing partner for lunch later this week.
10. Got invited to dinner next week with Vicki and Roger at their new house.
Monday, June 08, 2015
Scattered showers
Last night was one of those nights when I couldn’t get to sleep. I probably dozed off in the chair about 2 or 2:30, then woke up and went to the bed about 4. I still got up at 6 to go the pool, but will no doubt call it quits early tonight.
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We went to our usual Monday bridge this afternoon. John came in second last week, but neither of us had much in the way of cards today. We may not stay with this group much longer. Folks have come and gone, and we still enjoy playing with about half of the players at 4-6 tables. But there have gotten to be some folks who are unbearably annoying. There are beginners, but that’s okay - that’s how new players are made. But a couple of them just seem to be incapable of learning and/or improving. And there are a couple of pretty good players who seem to play just shy of cheating. This group doesn’t have “bridge police”, but there are rules and they are there for a reason, to make the game fair for all players. And there’s at least one who is just an unmitigated a..hole. We play bridge because it’s a good game and because we find it fun and challenging. When it stops being fun, then we just may quit this group. Stay tuned.
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We went to our usual Monday bridge this afternoon. John came in second last week, but neither of us had much in the way of cards today. We may not stay with this group much longer. Folks have come and gone, and we still enjoy playing with about half of the players at 4-6 tables. But there have gotten to be some folks who are unbearably annoying. There are beginners, but that’s okay - that’s how new players are made. But a couple of them just seem to be incapable of learning and/or improving. And there are a couple of pretty good players who seem to play just shy of cheating. This group doesn’t have “bridge police”, but there are rules and they are there for a reason, to make the game fair for all players. And there’s at least one who is just an unmitigated a..hole. We play bridge because it’s a good game and because we find it fun and challenging. When it stops being fun, then we just may quit this group. Stay tuned.
Saturday, June 06, 2015
Sunday Stealing
Would You Rather Meme, part one
Stolen from: Sign Up Genius
Meet my great-great grandchildren
Would you rather have more time or more money?
More time
Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button on your life?
A pause button - there’s not that much time left
Would you rather be able to talk with the animals or speak all foreign languages?
Speak foreign languages - communication with other people is more important
Would you rather win the lottery or live twice as long?
At this time in my life, I’d rather have the money
Would you feel worse if no one showed up to your wedding or to your funeral?
Definitely my funeral
Would you rather be without internet for a week, or without your phone?
Without my phone
Would you rather meet George Washington, or the current President?
I’d rather meet President Obama
Would you rather lose your vision or your hearing?
I’d definitely rather lose my hearing.
Would you rather work more hours per day, but fewer days or work fewer hours per day, but more days?
I’m retired, I’m not working ANY hours or days
Would you rather listen to music from the 70’s or music from today?
I’d rather listen to music from the 1870s.
Would you rather become someone else or just stay you?
I can’t think of anyone else I’d rather be
Would you rather be Batman or Spiderman?
How about Wonder Woman?
Would you rather be stuck on a broken ski lift or in a broken elevator?
I’d never be on a ski lift, but I think that’d be my choice
For your birthday, would you rather receive cash or gifts?
Cash - I have enough stuff, unless it’s something special made for me.
Friday, June 05, 2015
Thursday, June 04, 2015
Thursday Thirteen
1. Today was a stay-at-home day.
2. I cleaned out another section of my closet.
3. There’s still lots to do, but I stopped before it was overwhelming.
4. John saw the oncology radiologist today.
5. The doc told him he was doing great and to keep doing what he was doing.
6. He should continue to improve and gain strength, even if it isn’t as fast as he thinks it ought to be.
7. The first painter to look at the house job sent his estimate.
8. John got an e-mail from his old doubles rowing partner.
9. She had a major bout of colitis with surgery and excision of most of the large bowel.
10. She’s in the middle of a long convalescence, too.
11. Renna is in the hospital with a severe UTI, but improving.
12. Rick Perry announced he’s running for president. Be still my heart!
13. The Duggars are lower than pond scum, and I hate that I even remotely know who they are.
2. I cleaned out another section of my closet.
3. There’s still lots to do, but I stopped before it was overwhelming.
4. John saw the oncology radiologist today.
5. The doc told him he was doing great and to keep doing what he was doing.
6. He should continue to improve and gain strength, even if it isn’t as fast as he thinks it ought to be.
7. The first painter to look at the house job sent his estimate.
8. John got an e-mail from his old doubles rowing partner.
9. She had a major bout of colitis with surgery and excision of most of the large bowel.
10. She’s in the middle of a long convalescence, too.
11. Renna is in the hospital with a severe UTI, but improving.
12. Rick Perry announced he’s running for president. Be still my heart!
13. The Duggars are lower than pond scum, and I hate that I even remotely know who they are.
Wednesday, June 03, 2015
Life as 2015 grads know it
This list (from Beloit College) was in the Chattanooga Times Free Press the other day. It was a sidebar on a story about the valedictorians from area high schools. These lists are always an eye-opener.
Life as 2015 grads see it
Here are several things that have been true for the class of 2015 for most of their lives.
Life as 2015 grads see it
Here are several things that have been true for the class of 2015 for most of their lives.
- Robert De Niro is thought of as Greg Focker’s long-suffering father-in-law, not as Vito Corleone or Travis Bickle.
- They have never seen an airplane “ticket”.
- For most of their lives, maintaining relations between the U.S. and the rest of the world has been a woman’s job in the State Department.
- They can’t picture people actually carrying luggage through airports rather than rolling it.
- There has always been football in Jacksonville, but never in Los Angeles.
- Their folks have never gazed with pride on a new set of bound encyclopedias on the bookshelf.
- They have lived in an era of instant stardom and self-proclaimed celebrities, famous for being famous.
- They know many established film stars by their voices on computer-animated blockbusters.
- History has always had its own channel.
- Gene therapy has always been an available treatment.
- Few in the class know how to write in cursive.
- Email is just too slow and they seldom, if ever, use snail mail.
- Clint Eastwood is better known as a sensitive director than as Dirty Harry.
- Fergie is a pop singer, not a princess.
- They've never recognized that pointing to their wrists was a request for the time of day.
- “View Discretion” has always been an available warning on TV shows.
- Secondhand smoke has always been an official carcinogen.
- Nirvana is on the classic oldies station.
Tuesday, June 02, 2015
Special people
Our super family has come through to help each other. Wayne (Kate's husband) doesn't ever go to the beach with us. He has offered to stay with Bobby for the week so Margaret can go, and get a break. We are always proud of all our "babies", but this is really special. Wayne, you're the best!
We met some of the other swimmers at the visitation at the funeral home for the great gal who worked the front desk at the Y. Brenda was just super special - always with a smile and a song (with a glorious soprano voice, mostly singing spirituals and black gospel music). She was only 62, dropped dead on her way to work last week, probably a blood clot. We didn't stay long, there was quite a crowd. Then we went to a local fried chicken eatery for supper. It was a good send-off for her. We won't go to the funeral tomorrow, although I'm sure the music will be fabulous. RIP Brenda.
We met some of the other swimmers at the visitation at the funeral home for the great gal who worked the front desk at the Y. Brenda was just super special - always with a smile and a song (with a glorious soprano voice, mostly singing spirituals and black gospel music). She was only 62, dropped dead on her way to work last week, probably a blood clot. We didn't stay long, there was quite a crowd. Then we went to a local fried chicken eatery for supper. It was a good send-off for her. We won't go to the funeral tomorrow, although I'm sure the music will be fabulous. RIP Brenda.
Monday, June 01, 2015
Guest limericks
In response to my feeble attempt at limerick-writing, my oldest friend, Anne, replied with these wonderful descriptions of our family. Anne, you’re the best!
Here's to the great Margaret Zelle
Renowned far and wide for her jelly.
Be it peaches or grape
What it does for my shape
Increases the size of my belly!
Renowned far and wide for her jelly.
Be it peaches or grape
What it does for my shape
Increases the size of my belly!
And then there's my oldest friend Mary
With word command useful to parry
when youth of today
spout out words and display
a truly sad vocabulary!
With word command useful to parry
when youth of today
spout out words and display
a truly sad vocabulary!
Her husband John races in boats,
(at least when he's feeling his oats!)
So get back on your feet
Soon to compete -
Remember, my friend, that "hope floats"!
Their number one daughter is Sue,
Very organized, SO much to do!
When her kids left the nest
Did she take a rest?
You could bet on it, but you'd lose, too!
The third one in line is our Kate,
At weaving and biking she's great!
A bad broken leg
Took her down a peg,
But quitting? That's not her fate.
The fourth little girl they named Jean.
Her language can sometimes seem mean,
But her heart's made of gold,
And, truth be told,
That tough talk is only a screen.
AND FINALLY:
And then there's the folks called "Beach Bunch",
Who never miss meals (except lunch).
In the ocean they dive
and come out alive -
For Happy Hour'd be my best hunch!
Very organized, SO much to do!
When her kids left the nest
Did she take a rest?
You could bet on it, but you'd lose, too!
The third one in line is our Kate,
At weaving and biking she's great!
A bad broken leg
Took her down a peg,
But quitting? That's not her fate.
The fourth little girl they named Jean.
Her language can sometimes seem mean,
But her heart's made of gold,
And, truth be told,
That tough talk is only a screen.
AND FINALLY:
And then there's the folks called "Beach Bunch",
Who never miss meals (except lunch).
In the ocean they dive
and come out alive -
For Happy Hour'd be my best hunch!
Sunday, May 31, 2015
Sunday Stealing
Swiped Meme
Stolen from: Get It All Down
Do you need to write down things to remember them?
Not always, but it’s best if I do.
Do you keep a diary/journal?
I write a daily blog.
Are you scared of thunderstorms?
Not really - just a healthy respect for the power of nature.
Do you have any unusual fears or phobias?
No
What’s your favorite Disney movie?
I can’t come up with a favorite right now.
Have you ever painted a house?
Not the outside. And I haven’t painted inside walls in decades.
What’s the tallest tree you've ever climbed?
Zero feet.
Do you always wear identical socks?
I guess I do, but it’s not a compulsion. When I fold clothes out of the dryer, I match socks.
Do you live by any motto or philosophy?
Not specifically.
Do you lick the yogurt or dessert lid?
No, but I do scrape it off with the spoon.
Do you lick the spoon clean after making something sweet?
Sometimes
Have you ever played the bongos?
No
Have you ever handled a snake?
I’ve never “handled” one, but I have touched one.
Have you ever assembled furniture by yourself?
Yes, but usually that’s John’s job.
When did you last go to the beach?
Last June, and we’ll be there again in less than a month. Yea!
When if ever did you last go to London?We went through Heathrow to get to Oxfordshire about five years ago, but not into London itself.
What do you do to cool down when its hot?
Stay in the air conditioning.
What's the most unusual thing you've ever eaten?
Kangaroo in Australia, whale in Norway.
Do you have a favorite mug?
Yes, the one Jean made for me.
Do you know any self-defense or martial arts?
Nope
Who's your favorite movie action hero?
I don’t go to see “action movies”.
Have you ever ridden a motorcycle?
No, and have no desire to do so.
Do you collect anything?
Yarn, puzzle books - at least they accumulate around me.
Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?
“Fashion” is not part of my life. Comfort clothes are for me.
Do you stick to conventional fashions or like to try and be original?
See the above answer.
Have you ever given someone a handmade present?
Frequently
If you could have any feature from an animal what would you want?
I think I’d like the ability to fly.
Saturday, May 30, 2015
Limericks
One of the blogs I follow is Yorkshire Pudding. Mr. Pudding, not surprisingly, lives in Sheffield, England, in the Yorkshire District. He is an avid football (soccer on this side of the pond) fan. As a response to the current FIFA kerfuffle, Mr. Pudding posted this wonderful limerick.
There was an old man called Sepp Blatter
To whom football just didn't matter
As long as his crime
Through the fullness of time
Made his thick FIFA wallet grow fatter.
To whom football just didn't matter
As long as his crime
Through the fullness of time
Made his thick FIFA wallet grow fatter.
This was definitely a challenge. I've never tried to write limericks before and I've always loved them (even the clean ones). So here goes...
I’d love to write a limerick,
Just tell me what’s the trick.
Surely it’s easy,
Easy and peasy.
If I can only make the words stick.
Friday, May 29, 2015
Thursday, May 28, 2015
Thursday happens
I took a trunk-load of unwanted stuff to the Northside Neighborhood House this morning. It’s been sitting on the porch for ages, with me promising over and over to take it away. So it finally did happen today. Of course, I should be going through stuff and taking loads on a weekly basis. But that’s probably not going to happen.
We’ve had a lovely day today, early summer sunshine and humidity. Then about 7 p.m., the wind started to blow, and we had about 30 minutes of a really loud thunderstorm. Lots of crashing and banging and rain, and then it was gone. Fortunately for us, it’s nothing awful like they’ve been having in Texas.
We’ve had a lovely day today, early summer sunshine and humidity. Then about 7 p.m., the wind started to blow, and we had about 30 minutes of a really loud thunderstorm. Lots of crashing and banging and rain, and then it was gone. Fortunately for us, it’s nothing awful like they’ve been having in Texas.
Wednesday, May 27, 2015
Spending money can be fun
The carpenters worked all day on the porch today. Most of the deck is finished - still some railing left to do. Then they can start on the siding and overhang. We looked in the birdhouse this afternoon, and the nest was empty. I guess the babies got out - safely, I hope. John got it cleaned out, and the guys will put it back up for us.
We’ve gotten more of the logistics taken care of for our trip to the Canadian Rockies in August with Ann & Al. We’ve made the reservations for our lodgings in Canmore and Jasper. We’ve made the decision about when to go to the Tyrrell Museum in Drumheller. We’ve made our plane reservations. And tonight we got the rental car taken care of. We’ve been talking about making the return visit to this area with A&A for about five years, and it looks like we’re finally going to make it.
Spending money can be fun.
We’ve gotten more of the logistics taken care of for our trip to the Canadian Rockies in August with Ann & Al. We’ve made the reservations for our lodgings in Canmore and Jasper. We’ve made the decision about when to go to the Tyrrell Museum in Drumheller. We’ve made our plane reservations. And tonight we got the rental car taken care of. We’ve been talking about making the return visit to this area with A&A for about five years, and it looks like we’re finally going to make it.
Spending money can be fun.
Tuesday, May 26, 2015
Tuesday Miscellany
- Walmart and Aldi didn’t make a whole lot of money from us today.
- The workmen were here shortly after 8 this morning, working hard.
- The work on the side of the house is going to be more extensive than we hoped.
- We had lots of rain this afternoon and evening, but fortunately nothing like what they had in Houston.
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We got word this morning that the dear lady who greeted us every morning at the YMCA died unexpectedly this morning. A beautiful voice has been silenced.RIP Brenda Holloway.
Monday, May 25, 2015
Memorial Day
REMEMBER
SOMEBODY DIED
SO THAT YOU COULD SEE THE SKY TODAY
SOMEBODY DIED
AT VALLEY FORGE
AT GETTYSBURG
AT THE SOMME
IN THE D-DAY LANDING
IN KOREA
IN VIET NAM
IN IRAQ
IN AFGHANISTAN
SOMEONE'S MOTHER SOBBED
BUT YOU SEE THE SKY TODAY
BECAUSE SOMEONE'S EYES CLOSED FOREVER.
REMEMBER THEM
AND FLY THE FLAG THEY LOVED.
MaryPage M. DrakeSOMEBODY DIED
SO THAT YOU COULD SEE THE SKY TODAY
SOMEBODY DIED
AT VALLEY FORGE
AT GETTYSBURG
AT THE SOMME
IN THE D-DAY LANDING
IN KOREA
IN VIET NAM
IN IRAQ
IN AFGHANISTAN
SOMEONE'S MOTHER SOBBED
BUT YOU SEE THE SKY TODAY
BECAUSE SOMEONE'S EYES CLOSED FOREVER.
REMEMBER THEM
AND FLY THE FLAG THEY LOVED.
2015
Sunday, May 24, 2015
Sunday Stealing
Very Much Questions Meme
Stolen from: Lots of Questions
1. What was the last clothing item that you bought?
Swim suit - the chlorine eats them up and I always need a spare.
2. If you could stay one age forever, what age would you choose?
Probably in my 50s. Sue has decided that she “has it all” in her 50s, good health, grown kids, no health or money problems. Works for me, too.
3. When you say “lol”, are you really laughing?
Not necessarily, but usually at least smiling.
4. What is the most interesting thing you’ve done in the past year?
Boat trip on the upper Mississippi, recover from reverse shoulder arthroplasty, deal with John’s lung cancer.
5. If you started a business, what would it be?
I never wanted to be in business for myself.
6. Do your friends/family/coworkers know about your blog?
Of course. In many ways, it’s my way of communicating with them.
7. How long does it take you to write an average blog post?
30-60 minutes - once I decide what to write
8. How do you keep up with the blogs you follow?
I list them on Feedly.
9. What is your bedtime?
Usually between 11:30 and midnight.
10. Introvert or extrovert?
Somewhere in the middle
11. What is your biggest wish?
Nowadays, good health for my family and myself.
12. What is the best job you ever had?
Mother
13. Dog person/cat person/both/neither?
Neither
14. If you had $1,000 to spend any way you wanted, what would you do with it?
I'd use it for travel.
15. How do you “dress” your toast?
Butter and jelly - unless it’s cinnamon toast.
16. How do you feel about snow?
It’s gorgeous as long as it’s only on the grass and is gone in 24 hours.
17. What was the worst job you ever had?
House cleaning - my own.
18. What song can you not stop listening to?
I don’t have one of these.
19. Love your name or hate it?
It’s okay - never any problems with it.
20. How did you choose your blog/twitter handle?
It just seemed obvious at the time.
Saturday, May 23, 2015
Saturday visit
Sue came to visit.
Always good, and an excuse
To have lasagna.
She went next to Smith’s,
Checking on Margaret and
Bobby. Then back home.
Friday, May 22, 2015
A good day
Sue is here, and that's always special. We don't get to see our girls often enough. Tina came over, too, and we had a good supper of lasagna, corn, salad, and bread. Tina brought a chocolate and raspberry dessert, too. Yum to all.
The workmen got her about 9:30 this morning, and went right to work. Pretty soon we had lunber, a dumpster, and a porta-potty in the turnaround. There was lots of hammering and sawing, etc. I was sure the hubbub would have finished off our bluebird babies. But as soon as the workmen left at 3, the parents were back hustling worms in to the chirping babies. So all is well. Did I say I taped a note to the birdhouse, asking them to leave it as long as possible because of the babies? We'll see how they do tomorrow - birds AND workmen.
Thursday, May 21, 2015
Doctors and Costco
John had an appointment with the oncologist this morning. John’s lab values were pretty good, including his PSA. The doc says he’s doing very well. John says, if that’s the case, why don’t I feel better. Obviously, patience is not his strong point. His followup scan and appointment are set up for the week after we get back from the beach.
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We went to Costco when we left the doc’s office - our first trip in some time. I didn’t have a lot to get, and neither of us could walk too much. But I did pick up the usual stuff, plus we had a great gourmet lunch.
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Some of the workmen came by and measured for the materials to do the deck. I guess they’ll get started tomorrow or Saturday Yea!
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We went to Costco when we left the doc’s office - our first trip in some time. I didn’t have a lot to get, and neither of us could walk too much. But I did pick up the usual stuff, plus we had a great gourmet lunch.
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Some of the workmen came by and measured for the materials to do the deck. I guess they’ll get started tomorrow or Saturday Yea!
Wednesday, May 20, 2015
Kwizgiver's advice for all ages.
Kwizgiver is a high school teacher in the lovely state of Maine. Tuesday in her blog, What If This Is As Good As It Gets?, she posted these words of advice. I thought these made super advice for all of us - regardless of age. I got her permission to reprint them here.
This week's topic is 10 Things You Would Say If You Gave a Commencement Address.
1) You won't always get what you want. And it is sometimes better that way.
2) Be open to the possibilities. Try not to dismiss opportunities and offers if they don't jive with what you think.
3) Have patience. Life has its own time table. And it's unpredictable.
4) Get a hobby. Develop interests of your own.
5) Love takes many shapes and forms. There is true beauty in platonic love. Soul mates are not necessarily romantic mates.
6) Unplug. Take time away from electronics. Don't talk on the phone or text when there's a live person across from you.
7) Visit your friends and family in person. Hanging out, talking about nothing and everything is fun.
8) Make time for yourself. Self care is important. And for many people it's hard to prioritize ourselves into the lists of obligations. But taking care of yourself helps you take care of others.
9) Live within your means. Instead of keeping up with the Jones' keep up with yourself. Mind your credit. Honor your obligations.
10) Nap.
This week's topic is 10 Things You Would Say If You Gave a Commencement Address.
1) You won't always get what you want. And it is sometimes better that way.
2) Be open to the possibilities. Try not to dismiss opportunities and offers if they don't jive with what you think.
3) Have patience. Life has its own time table. And it's unpredictable.
4) Get a hobby. Develop interests of your own.
5) Love takes many shapes and forms. There is true beauty in platonic love. Soul mates are not necessarily romantic mates.
6) Unplug. Take time away from electronics. Don't talk on the phone or text when there's a live person across from you.
7) Visit your friends and family in person. Hanging out, talking about nothing and everything is fun.
8) Make time for yourself. Self care is important. And for many people it's hard to prioritize ourselves into the lists of obligations. But taking care of yourself helps you take care of others.
9) Live within your means. Instead of keeping up with the Jones' keep up with yourself. Mind your credit. Honor your obligations.
10) Nap.
Tuesday, May 19, 2015
Good Tuesday
I got to both Walmart and Aldi this morning. Granted, I didn't have much to get, so it didn't take very long. And I wore the knee brace. But glad to have that accomplished and know that it CAN be done - albeit very carefully.
Vicki called, and we met for lunch. This made two “eat-outs” for me today. We already had plans to meet Tina for dinner. There’s not much better than good friends and good food.
Vicki called, and we met for lunch. This made two “eat-outs” for me today. We already had plans to meet Tina for dinner. There’s not much better than good friends and good food.
Monday, May 18, 2015
Monday Miscellany
Bridge was not much this afternoon. The first two rounds, we played at a table with two of the worst players in the group. I finally played with a good player in what turned out to be the last round. We play at a city-owned civic center, so it's a public venue, and available for renting. The director came in at 3, and told us (for the first time) that some "big event" was coming in and wanted to set up, so we needed to be out by 3:30. Seriously! We usually play until 4:30 and then have until 5 to be cleared out. Surely they could have told us this earlier. Lots of grumbling - but not much chance of changing our place. Oh, well...
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One of our swimmers has been having excruciating back pain for several weeks. She’s having surgery for a ruptured disc in the morning. She lives alone, but with two daughters and grandkids in the area. Plus us as a support group. We’ll be taking good care of her.
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One of our swimmers has been having excruciating back pain for several weeks. She’s having surgery for a ruptured disc in the morning. She lives alone, but with two daughters and grandkids in the area. Plus us as a support group. We’ll be taking good care of her.
Saturday, May 16, 2015
Sunday Stealing
RaNdOm Meme
Stolen from: Lots of Questions
1. If you were to attend a costume party tonight, what or whom would you go as?
I would go dressed as myself - I don’t really like costume parties.
2. What are your choice of toppings on a hamburger?
Mayo, mustard, lettuce, onion, pickles, tomato.
3. You are chosen to have lunch with the President. The condition is you only get to ask one question. What do you ask?
What will you do with your prestige after you’ve left office?
4. It’s your first day of vacation, what are you doing?
Enjoying whatever it is.
5. What is your concession stand must-have at the movies?
I don’t get food at movies.
6. Which do you dislike most: pop-up ads or spam email?
Our ISP is good about blocking both those things, but pop-up ads are more annoying and “in-your-face”.
7. What do you think Captain Hook’s name was before he had a hook for a hand?
Captain Smith
8. Rock, paper, or scissors?
Paper
9. Let's say a brick fell on your foot, and your kid is standing right next to you, what is your 'cleaned up’ swear word?
Son-of-a-gun!!!
10. Which is worse, being in a place that is too loud, or too quiet?
Definitely too loud. There’s no such thing as “too quiet” for me.
11. What is one quality that you really appreciate in a person?
A sense of humor
12. At the good old general store, what particular kind of candy would you expect to be in the big jar at the counter?
Licorice whips.
13. What is the most distinguishing landmark in your city?
Natural: Lookout Mountain and the Tennessee River. Man-made: the Tennessee Aquarium
14. Everyone hears discussions that they consider boring. What topic can put you to sleep quicker than any other?
Technical science stuff, like chemistry, etc.
15. How many times did it take you to pass your drivers test?
I passed the first time.
16. If you had to have the same topping on your vanilla ice cream for the rest of your life, what topping would you choose?
Caramel/butterscotch
17. What food item would need to be removed from the market altogether in order for you to live a healthier, longer life?
Cookies.
18. You are offered an envelope that you know contains $50. You are then told that you may either keep it or exchange it for another envelope that may contain $500 or may be empty. Do you keep the first envelope, or do you take your chances with the second?
Go for the $500. I didn’t have anything before, so if it’s empty, I’m not any worse off than I was to begin with.
19. If you had to choose, which would you give up: cable TV, or DSL/cable internet?
Cable TV
20. What is your highest level of education?
College graduate
21. How much is a gallon of gas in your city? What was the highest it’s been?
I think it’s $2.45. A couple of years ago, it was up near $4.00.
22. What kind of lunch box did you have as a kid?
I don’t remember a lunch box. I think I probably used a brown bag. That’s what our girls got their lunches packed in.
23. What would you rather have, a nanny, a housekeeper, a cook, or a chauffeur?
I’d choose a housekeeper who also cooks and drives.
24. Would you rather be trapped in an elevator, or stuck in traffic?
Stuck in traffic. You could at least bail out of the car if needed.
Friday, May 15, 2015
Thursday, May 14, 2015
Three for Thursday
1. I went to the rheumatologist today, checking out the various meds, aches and pains, and blood work.
2. He gave me a cortisone shot in my left knee to help continue the postponement of a total knee replacement.
3. He told me to be a couch potato for two days - no shopping, no swimming. I can do that!
Wednesday, May 13, 2015
Sunshine Wednnesday
Last night was one of the non-sleep nights. I really hate that. It was nearly 5 a.m. before I got to sleep. I had decided that I was going to skip swimming - just wasn’t going to get up at 6 to do that. I did sleep until 7:30, but I’ll certainly hit the bed earlier tonight.
Friends, Carol & Stephen, are in their RV checking out some repairs in the campground the lovely Hamilton County park. They invited the swimmers over for hotdogs at noon today. It was a lovely day - temp around 80, with sunshine and a light breeze, so it was fun. I took a short nap when we got home, but didn’t want to sleep too much - I’d rather get a good night tonight.
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I have an appointment with the rheumatologist in the morning. He’s not a fan of the gel shots, but I’m going to ask him about a cortisone shot in my knee. He suggested a knee brace last time I saw him, so I got one and wear it when I know I’m going to be walking a lot. It tends to slide on my fat legs, though, and certainly will be very hot now that the weather is getting warmer. Oh, well…
Friends, Carol & Stephen, are in their RV checking out some repairs in the campground the lovely Hamilton County park. They invited the swimmers over for hotdogs at noon today. It was a lovely day - temp around 80, with sunshine and a light breeze, so it was fun. I took a short nap when we got home, but didn’t want to sleep too much - I’d rather get a good night tonight.
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I have an appointment with the rheumatologist in the morning. He’s not a fan of the gel shots, but I’m going to ask him about a cortisone shot in my knee. He suggested a knee brace last time I saw him, so I got one and wear it when I know I’m going to be walking a lot. It tends to slide on my fat legs, though, and certainly will be very hot now that the weather is getting warmer. Oh, well…
Tuesday, May 12, 2015
An unusual Tuesday
Tuesday is grocery day - or at least it has been for some time. Today was no exception, but definitely different.
The last few weeks, I’ve wound up with severe knee pain after part of the first store, and the second one has been misery. Last week, our friend, Carol, went to Aldi for me (bless her!).
Today was a first! John volunteered to go to Aldi for me. He took a list and even did some “shopping”. Anybody who’s know us for a while knows that John NEVER goes to the grocery store. What a sweetie! I shouldn’t pick on him, but… Mainly I’m glad he feels well enough to do that, and it is getting some walking done.
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Our Super Walmart is being renovated. I just discovered today that they are again stocking fabric and findings. Yard goods haven't been available in our Walmart since before they moved into this building ten or so years ago. Hooray for WM!
The last few weeks, I’ve wound up with severe knee pain after part of the first store, and the second one has been misery. Last week, our friend, Carol, went to Aldi for me (bless her!).
Today was a first! John volunteered to go to Aldi for me. He took a list and even did some “shopping”. Anybody who’s know us for a while knows that John NEVER goes to the grocery store. What a sweetie! I shouldn’t pick on him, but… Mainly I’m glad he feels well enough to do that, and it is getting some walking done.
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Our Super Walmart is being renovated. I just discovered today that they are again stocking fabric and findings. Yard goods haven't been available in our Walmart since before they moved into this building ten or so years ago. Hooray for WM!
Monday, May 11, 2015
Crazy weather
We had crazy weather around here today. It’s not too unusual to have “pop-up” showers in this area. But these were different. All around our house, there was thunder and lightning, wind, lots of rain, and even some hail. We had nothing but sunshine at our house - although we could hear thunder. At least we didn’t have the awful weather they had in the plains and midWest. Our hearts go out to those folks who have lost everything in these storms.
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John made it through bridge this afternoon. There’s still not much oomph there, and he is still quite pale. He’s losing hair, although just little bits, and what’s left is the grey stuff. Little bitty steps.
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John made it through bridge this afternoon. There’s still not much oomph there, and he is still quite pale. He’s losing hair, although just little bits, and what’s left is the grey stuff. Little bitty steps.
Sunday, May 10, 2015
Quiet Mother's Day
We had gorgeous weather today, but it was pretty much Sunday as usual. Laundry and changing sheets - wow!
I had lots of Mother’s Day wishes from my lovely children. They are all special and really the reason for the day.
I had lots of Mother’s Day wishes from my lovely children. They are all special and really the reason for the day.
Saturday, May 09, 2015
Sunday Stealing
CAPS LOCK Meme
Stolen from: VERY MUCH QUESTIONS
1. YOU HAVE 10 BUCKS AND NEED TO BUY SNACKS AT A GAS STATION. WHAT DO YOU GET?
With $10, I’d probably get some coffee and a package of cookies or salties to eat in the car. We never buy snacks unless we’re on a road tirp.
2. IF YOU WERE REINCARNATED, WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD BE?
A slug - although I’d rather be a hawk or an eagle.
3. WHO’S YOUR FAVORITE REDHEAD?
Kate (when she’s a redhead)
4. WHAT DO YOU ORDER WHEN YOU’RE AT AN I.H.O.P. OR BREAKFAST PLACE?
Two eggs, over medium, with hash browns and rye toast.
5. LAST BOOK YOU READ?
The Purcelle Connection by Estelle Ryan. Now reading The Black Box by Michael Connelly (a Harry Bosch novel)
6. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?
I can’t remember, but we have Amazing Grace waiting to be watched.
7. DESCRIBE YOUR FAVORITE PAIR OF UNDERWEAR.
Cotton briefs
8. DESCRIBE THE LAST TIME YOU WERE INJURED.
The last big one was in August 2012 when I fell on the front porch and shattered my humerus just below the shoulder.
9. IF YOU COULD INVENT ONE THING, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Teleportation
10. ROCK CONCERT OR SYMPHONY?
Definitely symphony
11. WHAT IS THE WALLPAPER ON YOUR CELLPHONE?
A photo I took of the pink bluebird house during the snow last winter. (There are now bluebirds nesting in the house.)
12. FAVORITE SODA?
I really don’t much like sodas. I’d rather have water or coffee, but occasionally have tonic water with lime.
13. FLAVOR OF PUDDING?
I can’t remember the last time I had pudding.
14. WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE A PEDICURE OR A MANICURE?
Pedicure
15. ANY BUTTONS OR BLINKIES IN YOUR SIDEBAR?
I don’t know what this means.
16. HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE ON YOUR BLOGROLL?
I don’t know how to answer this one either.
17. WHAT’S THE LAST PIECE OF CLOTHING YOU BOUGHT?
Yoga pants to wear at home (on the sale rack at Walmart)
Stolen from: VERY MUCH QUESTIONS
1. YOU HAVE 10 BUCKS AND NEED TO BUY SNACKS AT A GAS STATION. WHAT DO YOU GET?
With $10, I’d probably get some coffee and a package of cookies or salties to eat in the car. We never buy snacks unless we’re on a road tirp.
2. IF YOU WERE REINCARNATED, WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD BE?
A slug - although I’d rather be a hawk or an eagle.
3. WHO’S YOUR FAVORITE REDHEAD?
Kate (when she’s a redhead)
4. WHAT DO YOU ORDER WHEN YOU’RE AT AN I.H.O.P. OR BREAKFAST PLACE?
Two eggs, over medium, with hash browns and rye toast.
5. LAST BOOK YOU READ?
The Purcelle Connection by Estelle Ryan. Now reading The Black Box by Michael Connelly (a Harry Bosch novel)
6. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?
I can’t remember, but we have Amazing Grace waiting to be watched.
7. DESCRIBE YOUR FAVORITE PAIR OF UNDERWEAR.
Cotton briefs
8. DESCRIBE THE LAST TIME YOU WERE INJURED.
The last big one was in August 2012 when I fell on the front porch and shattered my humerus just below the shoulder.
9. IF YOU COULD INVENT ONE THING, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
Teleportation
10. ROCK CONCERT OR SYMPHONY?
Definitely symphony
11. WHAT IS THE WALLPAPER ON YOUR CELLPHONE?
A photo I took of the pink bluebird house during the snow last winter. (There are now bluebirds nesting in the house.)
12. FAVORITE SODA?
I really don’t much like sodas. I’d rather have water or coffee, but occasionally have tonic water with lime.
13. FLAVOR OF PUDDING?
I can’t remember the last time I had pudding.
14. WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE A PEDICURE OR A MANICURE?
Pedicure
15. ANY BUTTONS OR BLINKIES IN YOUR SIDEBAR?
I don’t know what this means.
16. HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE ON YOUR BLOGROLL?
I don’t know how to answer this one either.
17. WHAT’S THE LAST PIECE OF CLOTHING YOU BOUGHT?
Yoga pants to wear at home (on the sale rack at Walmart)
Friday, May 08, 2015
Five plus one on Friday
1. Another lovely day. Started with swimming at the Y and coffee at Panera.
2. John had a tough sinking spell this afternoon, so we didn’t go to duplicate. He’s better tonight.
3. The yard man came and did a major job on the yard.
4. Renna fixed dinner for us tonight. Yum and Thanks!
5. There was a murder/suicide in the house across the street from Missy today. Not much information so far, but the rest of the neighborhood is safe.
6. Lots of crazy things happening today: plane crash on I-285 in Atlanta, four fatalities; two separate bad accidents in Cleveland (TN) with one fatality; bizarre rush hour accident on bridge in Chattanooga.
2. John had a tough sinking spell this afternoon, so we didn’t go to duplicate. He’s better tonight.
3. The yard man came and did a major job on the yard.
4. Renna fixed dinner for us tonight. Yum and Thanks!
5. There was a murder/suicide in the house across the street from Missy today. Not much information so far, but the rest of the neighborhood is safe.
6. Lots of crazy things happening today: plane crash on I-285 in Atlanta, four fatalities; two separate bad accidents in Cleveland (TN) with one fatality; bizarre rush hour accident on bridge in Chattanooga.
Thursday, May 07, 2015
First night out, etc.
First night post treatment.
Mendelssohn, Brahms, string quartets.
What could be better!
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I loved having an Extra Special Blogger last night, especially that he wanted to say his own thing.
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We have a pair of bluebirds raising a family in our flamingo-pink bluebird house. This is the first time in however many years it’s been since Margaret made it for us. Exciting!
Wednesday, May 06, 2015
Guest Blogger - John
Today is a very special day. I had my last radiation treatment this morning. I had the last chemo treatment last Thursday. According to the doctors my cancer should be in remission. All I have to do now is to regain the strength and stamina that I have lost due to chemo and radiation.
It has not been a fun trip. The side effects were not bad for the first half. It got tougher and tougher as it went along. I came out of it with almost all of my hair, most of my appetite, and all of my sense of humor.
I had the greatest support that anyone could ask for, starting with Mary. She has been there for me every second of every day. What ever I needed she was there, usually before I asked. She had my back, front, and both sides. The idea of going through this without her at my side is something I don't even want to think about.
My daughters were always there, I love you girls. Mary's water aerobics class, as always, was there to support whoever was in need. It was my turn. One never knows how great one's friends are until you are the one who needs a friend.
The nurses and techs at the hospital were always wonderful. The radiation techs were always bright, cheerful. and caring. This is at 7 am. I don't know how they do it. Unless I can not judge people they truly cared about me as a person. I did not see the chemo nurses nearly as often but the same warmth and caring was there.
I did it with a lot of support and love. I want everyone that helped me through this to know that I really appreciate it Folks, I love you!
It has not been a fun trip. The side effects were not bad for the first half. It got tougher and tougher as it went along. I came out of it with almost all of my hair, most of my appetite, and all of my sense of humor.
I had the greatest support that anyone could ask for, starting with Mary. She has been there for me every second of every day. What ever I needed she was there, usually before I asked. She had my back, front, and both sides. The idea of going through this without her at my side is something I don't even want to think about.
My daughters were always there, I love you girls. Mary's water aerobics class, as always, was there to support whoever was in need. It was my turn. One never knows how great one's friends are until you are the one who needs a friend.
The nurses and techs at the hospital were always wonderful. The radiation techs were always bright, cheerful. and caring. This is at 7 am. I don't know how they do it. Unless I can not judge people they truly cared about me as a person. I did not see the chemo nurses nearly as often but the same warmth and caring was there.
I did it with a lot of support and love. I want everyone that helped me through this to know that I really appreciate it Folks, I love you!
Tuesday, May 05, 2015
One more
I went to Walmart this morning, but that was as far as I got. My knee started to act up again. Carol had offered to go to Aldi for me, so I "let" her do that (Bless her!!!). As another treat for me, I got a massage.
John seems to be feeling better today - still not much energy, but much better color. Most of the time, he's able to walk across the room without having to sit down along the way. One more radiation treatment to go, and then he sees the oncologist on Thursday.
John seems to be feeling better today - still not much energy, but much better color. Most of the time, he's able to walk across the room without having to sit down along the way. One more radiation treatment to go, and then he sees the oncologist on Thursday.
Monday, May 04, 2015
Soon
John has had probably his worst few days over the weekend and today. He’s had the extreme weakness and lower intestinal difficulties. Only two more radiation treatments, though, and no more chemo. We’ll see the oncologist on Thursday to check labs and set up followup appointments and scans.
Grocery stores tomorrow. And the contractor is due to come by to set up stuff for getting the work done on the deck and the siding of the house.
Sunday, May 03, 2015
Sunday Stealing
This isn't actually this week's Sunday Stealing, but an old one I stole from Bev at Airy Persiflage. This week’s Sunday Stealing was definitely not directed at my demographic. Thanks, Bev.
The phone rings. Who will it be?
A telemarketer.
When shopping at the grocery store, do you return your cart?
Always.
In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener?
Definitely a listener!
Do you take compliments well?
I try to remember to just say “Thank you”, and not to depreciate whatever is being complimented.
Do you play Sudoku?
Nope. I do word puzzles, mostly double crostics and cryptograms.
If abandoned alone in the wilderness, would you survive?
I could probably get through the day, but not longer.
Did you ever go to camp as a kid?
I went to Girl Scout camp, probably 4-6 summers.
What was your favorite game as a kid?
Jacks
Could you date someone with different religious beliefs than you?
Of course, assuming he didn’t want to convert me.
Use three words to describe yourself?
Old, creaky, friendly.
Do any songs make you cry?
Sometimes, but I can’t think of one right now. I always choke up when singing the Star Spangled Banner.
Are you continuing your education?
I like to think I’m always learning something new. And I finally got a college degree in 1990 (at age 54).
Do you know how to shoot a gun?
Not really. Although I have shot at squirrels in our back yard with a BB gun - and actually hit one once.
How often do you read books?
I always have a book going, and never go anywhere I might have to wait without one. Unlike some folks, though, I rarely read more than one at a time.
Do you think more about the past, present or future?
I don’t know. I’m trying to play for the future (what there is of it), don’t dwell in the past, and just cope with the present.
What is your favorite children’s book?
I always liked the Bobbsey Twins and then the Nancy Drew books.
What color are your eyes?
Brown
How tall are you?
I used to be 5'7-1/2"; now I'm 5'5"
Where is your dream house located?
I’ve always wanted to live on the ocean, but that’s not likely to happen. We’re comfortable in our house, but I wouldn’t mind moving into an apartment sometime.
If your house was on fire, what would be the first thing you grabbed?
John, and then “Pinkie” (some will understand this).
When was the last time you were at Olive Garden?
About a year ago, when I met some friends for lunch.
Where was the farthest place you traveled today?
Back and forth in the house.
Do you like mustard?
Sometimes, usually a brown mustard.
The phone rings. Who will it be?
A telemarketer.
When shopping at the grocery store, do you return your cart?
Always.
In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener?
Definitely a listener!
Do you take compliments well?
I try to remember to just say “Thank you”, and not to depreciate whatever is being complimented.
Do you play Sudoku?
Nope. I do word puzzles, mostly double crostics and cryptograms.
If abandoned alone in the wilderness, would you survive?
I could probably get through the day, but not longer.
Did you ever go to camp as a kid?
I went to Girl Scout camp, probably 4-6 summers.
What was your favorite game as a kid?
Jacks
Could you date someone with different religious beliefs than you?
Of course, assuming he didn’t want to convert me.
Use three words to describe yourself?
Old, creaky, friendly.
Do any songs make you cry?
Sometimes, but I can’t think of one right now. I always choke up when singing the Star Spangled Banner.
Are you continuing your education?
I like to think I’m always learning something new. And I finally got a college degree in 1990 (at age 54).
Do you know how to shoot a gun?
Not really. Although I have shot at squirrels in our back yard with a BB gun - and actually hit one once.
How often do you read books?
I always have a book going, and never go anywhere I might have to wait without one. Unlike some folks, though, I rarely read more than one at a time.
Do you think more about the past, present or future?
I don’t know. I’m trying to play for the future (what there is of it), don’t dwell in the past, and just cope with the present.
What is your favorite children’s book?
I always liked the Bobbsey Twins and then the Nancy Drew books.
What color are your eyes?
Brown
How tall are you?
I used to be 5'7-1/2"; now I'm 5'5"
Where is your dream house located?
I’ve always wanted to live on the ocean, but that’s not likely to happen. We’re comfortable in our house, but I wouldn’t mind moving into an apartment sometime.
If your house was on fire, what would be the first thing you grabbed?
John, and then “Pinkie” (some will understand this).
When was the last time you were at Olive Garden?
About a year ago, when I met some friends for lunch.
Where was the farthest place you traveled today?
Back and forth in the house.
Do you like mustard?
Sometimes, usually a brown mustard.
Saturday, May 02, 2015
Tough Saturday
Today was probably John’s lowest day since he started treatment. He slept most of the day, and pushed fluids when he was awake. By suppertime, his color was better, and he said the chicken noodle soup even tasted pretty good.
I guess I was having a sympathetic “low day”, too. I had two naps myself. And spent most of the day in the chair, with the usual NCIS marathon on the TV. I did get some knitting done.
I hope the improvements continue tomorrow.
I guess I was having a sympathetic “low day”, too. I had two naps myself. And spent most of the day in the chair, with the usual NCIS marathon on the TV. I did get some knitting done.
I hope the improvements continue tomorrow.
Friday, May 01, 2015
Friday stuff
Usual Friday swimming and coffee.
John had radiation treatment #27 (out of 30).
He picked a contractor to do the need repair work on the deck.
He’s really feeling the enervating effects of the treatment.
Hopefully, he’ll recover his energy quickly.
Talked to Sue about plans for the beach trip this summer.
John had radiation treatment #27 (out of 30).
He picked a contractor to do the need repair work on the deck.
He’s really feeling the enervating effects of the treatment.
Hopefully, he’ll recover his energy quickly.
Talked to Sue about plans for the beach trip this summer.
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